RetiredHeartbreaker Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 My boyfriend and I broke up Monday. It's been so hard not contacting him. Going from talking to someone all the time to never. It started Monday when I told him I wasn't happy. Eventually it lead to us breaking up, his decision. Last words I said to him was he is dead to me. I regret it. I was just so hurt. I'm not trying to defend him but I think part of the reason he wanted to just give up was because he went home for the summer to visit for the first time in a year and I think he might have got cold feet about picking up and moving to a new state for me this fall. I just don't know what to do. It only gets harder and it takes all I have not to text him. I miss him. I have never missed and ex until now, I have always been the dumper. I never believed in true love until my ex. We called each other soulmates. Now I don't know what to think. All my friends have said I could do better since the day we met. I'm you're all American beauty queen and he was your shy guy. But that's why I love him. He is not like anyone I have ever been with. He is everything I'm not. He completed me. But he is the most stubborn man in the world, so i dont know if I should just give him space. I just need help from an outside source. Thanks for any help you can provide.
umirano Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 This is interesting. I dumped my girl a week ago. Like you she's tons of friends all over her, the center of attention and attraction, whereas I am rather reserved. I'd be interested to know what her friends say . I'll tell you what: Chill out for a few weeks. If you still feel that way after some time, clear your thoughts and figure out whether you'd get back together with him. Now you may just be missing daily activities with him. If you miss him as a person, as a soul mate, you'll be able to get over the break up if he feels the same way. Sometimes it's just best to leave things be and let them sort out themselves. Good luck!
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