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Saw the Ex with his girlfriend..

LoveB86

By LoveB86
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LoveB86 Established Member

LoveB86

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Hi Everyone,

 

The dreaded day had finally came. For those that don't know my story. I

met my ex at work. Dated for a year. He cheated on me 2 months ago with another co-worker and never talked to me ever since. I was really good to this man. I been NC since the breakup as well.

 

I would see him around here and there, but of course, never them together. Well, yesterday was the day where they were going to lunch together. (Mind you, he rarely would go out with me to lunch at work, but now he tries with her.

 

It was awkward and I sense he felt awkward too. It seemed like he knew he was ashamed for cheating. I mean, he is the one who caused all this at a workplace. I kept my head up and ignored them both. I didn't even look them

in the eyes. For some reason it felt like I had a bulletproof vest on (I didn't breakdown and cry or anything). It felt a bit indifferent.. It felt like the pain

may still be there, but I know I was very good to him when we were together (That I gave him my all)

 

Just decided to share with you all. It's hard to cope, but I felt a tiny bit stronger! I'm still sad, but now I know what it's like to see them together. His girlfriend I hear has jealous issues over me. I guess I am looking like alot better.

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I'm glad that you did not cry that means that you are beginning to heal. I saw my ex recently and I felt sad afterward, but then I began to feel numb toward the situation... She will always be insecure in their relationship because of how she got him. I was always told "if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you" Stay strong! Karma will take care of them.

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Stay strong. You are healing as its not sticking to you. Haven't read your past posts, but even not knowing I can tell you that 1. you are better off as he showed what/who he was through his bad behaviour and 2. no relationship that starts off with cheating lasts.

 

They all crash and burn.

 

You will heal and find someone worthy of you. You will.

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