markhe Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 My gf dumped me. She changed locks found out she had been having lomg phine conversations with another guy for month while I was still living with her. I had move out in one day. Been 5 weeks now. I went NC few weeks ago.She had been calling ignored her. She actually called me and I was out of town with another girl. Told her by text I was busy. She replied "of course". Sent her text I had no desire to talk to her hurts too much. I had stop by her place exchange few things and tpld her put stuff out back didnt want to see her. I pull up she comes out really? She looks like train wreck.She has 8 year old daughter I've known since 3 1/2. I ask see her we were really close we hug kiss etc. I said ok by trying leave she wants talk. She starts crying I hug her emotions running deep. I cry she asks why I tell her its hard to see her and touch her. She hurt me really bad by changing locks and talking some guy on phone for hours. I was under a lot of stress work etc and emotionally withdrwaled. She knew it told her work making ke sick. Instead of supporting me like I've always done through her issues she dumps me. She says she misses me all the hings i did around house etc. She says we can't be togeher right now though. Says she will never love anyone like me. So I leave broken hearted again going back NC all the emotions coming back can't get her out of my head! Told her we could work through it nothing fast rebuild trust. She thinks my recollection of events is distorted. Realy? You were having three hour conversations wih said "friend" for a monh while I was sleeping or at work. And she told me she had feelings for him. So seeing her holding her has set me back! Im talking two other girls now but can't get her out of my mind and heart. Im not ready to date yet. So breadcrumbs? Hope I dont know. I blocked her phone number now just can't be dragged through gutter anymore.
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