Scirok Posted May 31, 2013 Posted May 31, 2013 Hey everyone I'm gonna appoligize in advance for my rambling and bad grammar but just looking for a little advice from a neutral source So little background im 24 my long term relationship ended and now I've had nothing but a couple hook ups. My problem is I just don't understand why I can't get a girl to acknowledge my existence never mind a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong i have confidence but I don't see myself as an attractive guy I'm shorter 5-9 ish slightly out of shape (lost a lot of weight) but my face I feel like just sucks (I know I know) but can't help it it's the way i see myself. I'm currently working as an EMT and looking for a fire fighting job and I feel some what successful i hang around a lot of girls (friends of friends) but still I just can't seem to get any to be attracted to me I'm not shy I talk to them flirt etc but its honestly like I have a sign on my head that says don't date him its so weird I just don't know what to do I really want to start dating girls again and actually know what it feels like to be desired If there's any tips anyone could give me I would be great ful I just been single for way to long and I want to be happy again
carhill Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I attended a house-warming party for a friend last night and was listening to one of the attendees talk about how her daughter and future husband (getting married later this year) met. The daughter is a paramedic for an ambulance company and was responding to a TA with fire called out and happened to meet her future husband, a firefighter, because he had been called in on his day off and was tasked to work that accident. Otherwise, they never knew each other. That's how things go sometimes. Do what you do and continue progressing from your breakup and putting yourself in situations where you meet ladies. More opportunities equal more chances for success. Good luck.
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