My ex--- new here

[Lindz]

Long story short... Ex and I dated 2 years, I've had many relationships but he was the only one who I went through soooo much to make us work wifh and can say I "loved." But the entire relationship he never got his "impossible to reach" expectations met so any little tiny argument we had he'd make it into a dramatic break up so that I would run to him and show him the "love" he needed....ugh wont even go into that but this last time he broke up w me is the first time he actually met someone else and wasn't back to me... This is like the 10th break up- Literally, couldn't handle ANY argument but at same time couldn't LISTENto my needs as I did him daily, which wouldof been all he had to do to prevent any of "what he calls fights." Any time I'd try and express my needs he'd take it as a attack and blow up on me... It was always me atrying to make him understand I need someone by my side through our challenges and not running away and he never heard that" always took it as me attacking him... When I'd try to express my feelings through an email I'd get a reply fr him saying "unread or deleted" it's like he completely shut my needs down and not even sure if he even ever heard what they were! The entire relationship he called me negative, unhappy, etc and said I do nothing for him "although all I did for him which was a LOT, Emotionally AND PHYSICALLY- Which he never remembered since very time we fought he'd throw away any thing I had ever given, made or bought him including photos, a photo book, a textured photo of him his son me and my son that cost me over 100 dollars, every written card, etc, etc he trashed every time we'd fight- so of course he says "I never showed I loved him like he did for me" how could he remember- it was thrown away!

 

Ugh pisses me off even saying this stuff! I tried so hard and never in my life worked to make this guy happy .. Although she's 23 and he's 35 he seems to be "happy" now.

[Lindz]

I was cut off but basically saying I never worked as hard in any relationship on my life the way I did for this guy just to be emotional hurt the entire time while BLAMED AND now all the sudden the other day I talk to him for the first time since we broke up april23 and he's telling me how opposite his girlis from me...she's "compassionate and selfless" which are 2 of my BESR QUALITIESwhixh any sane person would know in meeting me. He also tells me he's in process of purchasing a home finally and how it made him think of me.... Which is the reason he contacted me origionally. I turned the convo into his new "fling" and that's when he told me she was there for him while he Cried about me and compassionate but the funny part is she's an intern at his job...ao. Lot younger and "looks department/so not his type which he HS told me his type.

 

I just don't get it....why does he feel the need to reach out to me when he HS this girl just to tell me about a house he may be purchasing! He's never been a homeowner like me so I'm proud of him but don't get the need to tell me

[Leigh 87]

It's completely disgusting to break up with a girl, date new girl, and then tell his ex how much better the new girl is.

 

Your ex has the emotional maturity of a 7 year old. No wonder he dates younger girls.