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LittleTiger Established Member

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Great news, SD. Now remember, each day is nothing more than a new opportunity to f*ck it up.

 

So don't f*ck it up.

 

I know you mean this as a joke and I hate to get all 'psychobabble' on you Hokie, but this is REALLY not helpful. The brain goes where we tell it to go and it doesn't process negatives. So SD's brain will read your posts as the exact opposite of what you've written!

 

Unless you want to sabotage his budding relationship, cut it out! Seriously! :mad:

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Sweet!

 

Way to seize the moment!

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I know you mean this as a joke and I hate to get all 'psychobabble' on you Hokie, but this is REALLY not helpful. The brain goes where we tell it to go and it doesn't process negatives. So SD's brain will read your posts as the exact opposite of what you've written!

 

Unless you want to sabotage his budding relationship, cut it out! Seriously! :mad:

 

Sorry, let me rephrase! :eek:

 

 

"Terrible news, SD. Now make sure you forget, each day is nothing less than an old obstacle to do the right thing.

 

Do the right thing, SD. Do the right thing."

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sillyanswer Established Member

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So what's the plan for date 3?

 

Perhaps an activity you both like (presumably you've talked enough to find some by now!) ?

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LittleTiger Established Member

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Sorry, let me rephrase! :eek:

 

 

"Terrible news, SD. Now make sure you forget, each day is nothing less than an old obstacle to do the right thing.

 

Do the right thing, SD. Do the right thing."

 

You understood exactly what I meant! If you're happy for SD then give him genuine support! Your posts on this thread are juvenile and make you sound a jealous teenager! :mad:

Emilia Established Member

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You understood exactly what I meant! If you're happy for SD then give him genuine support! Your posts on this thread are juvenile and make you sound a jealous teenager! :mad:

:laugh::laugh:

 

sorry LT, couldn't help it. What a telling off

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LittleTiger Established Member

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:laugh::laugh:

 

sorry LT, couldn't help it. What a telling off

 

:laugh::laugh::laugh:

 

I don't often get mad on here but jeez I'm livid! :D

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sillyanswer Established Member

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I'm sure that if I stayed longer more would have happened, but I'm happy that it stopped when it did. Frankly, I wasn't ready for it to go beyond.

 

Always leave them wanting more. ;):D

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Great news, SD. Now remember, each day is nothing more than a new opportunity to f*ck it up.

 

So don't f*ck it up.

 

The thing I think you don't understand is that he cannot f*ck it up.

 

If he is like me (and I squarely believe he is), he'll look back on this experience with mostly positive memories regardless of the outcome. A kiss! By an attractive woman! To some, most even, an afterthought. Something they may barely remember.

 

To others, a life changing momentous occasion. ;)

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You understood exactly what I meant! If you're happy for SD then give him genuine support! Your posts on this thread are juvenile and make you sound a jealous teenager! :mad:

 

But I am a jealous juvenile teenage. :confused:

 

And there's enough "genuine support" out there that I serve my purpose of balancing out the universe. And besides, it's SD... :rolleyes:

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LittleTiger Established Member

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But I am a jealous juvenile teenage. :confused:

 

And there's enough "genuine support" out there that I serve my purpose of balancing out the universe. And besides, it's SD... :rolleyes:

 

Hokie, don't get me wrong, I like you. Your posts are usually very entertaining, but sometimes school boy humour is not appropriate......and, it is because it's SD that I am so mad with you.

 

The really sad thing is that SD will come on here and say he's fine with your comments when he really should be telling you to take a long walk off a short pier - or something less polite!

 

Persist if you must, but your posts are more damaging than you realise. :mad:

 

OK, I'm done now. :laugh:

Emilia Established Member

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:laugh::laugh:
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Speaking of jealous, I bet that now all the LoveShack girls who've been trying to help SD all these years are gonna want him for themselves!

 

Because, as we all know, women only like guys who are with other women.

 

;)

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Woohoo! Good job, dude. I know none of us can possibly be as thrilled as you are, but still, awesome news!! :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:

 

What are you planning to do for the next date?

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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What are you planning to do for the next date?

 

Please don't say boob groping!

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Els Established Member

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Please don't say boob groping!

 

I was guessing 'tongue', but this works too. :laugh:

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LittleTiger Established Member

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What are you planning to do for the next date?

 

Whatever it is, if it goes beyond kissing I hope SD has the sense, and gentlemanly instinct, to keep quiet about the details! :eek:

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somedude81 Established Member

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Please don't say boob groping!

 

:(

 

Ass grabbing then?

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sillyanswer Established Member

sillyanswer

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:(

 

Ass grabbing then?

 

Yes, I always do butt grabbing before boob grabbing. :D

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Whatever it is, if it goes beyond kissing I hope SD has the sense, and gentlemanly instinct, to keep quiet about the details! :eek:

 

Yes, but....

 

I hope he tells us about the butt grabbing. :p

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Emilia Established Member

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Whatever it is, if it goes beyond kissing I hope SD has the sense, and gentlemanly instinct, to keep quiet about the details! :eek:

No-one else does....

LittleTiger Established Member

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:(

 

Ass grabbing then?

 

Boob groping or ass grabbing - if it's appropriate GO FOR IT! :bunny:

 

Just don't report back - please! :eek:

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Hallelujah! The moment the naysayers thought wouldn't come, has come! And it has given hope to the rest of us, particularly the other incels on this board. Come on guys, use this as an experience to invigorate and inspire you to achieve the same!

 

I'm very happy for you. After 5 years on this board, maybe you got there a little later than others but the important thing is you got there! You've achieved your goal! Now just play it smooth. It's almost impossible to go wrong from here, unless you do something really really bad. Oh and definitely have "the talk" as soon as possible. Me and my gf became a couple pretty much right after the first kiss.

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LittleTiger Established Member

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No-one else does....

 

Really? You want a blow by blow account of every move SD makes from hereon 'in'? ;):laugh:

 

Perhaps you could ask him to post videos too? Just to keep LS folks entertained! :o

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somedude81 Established Member

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Hopefully this thread is inspiration for the struggling fellas on here.

 

No matter what ends up happening between you and this girl Somedude, you took initiative and saw what happens when you do so. Nice work!

 

Let's review...

 

--You asked for her contact info.

 

--You kept in contact via FB (I'm assuming) the two months between your last class and now.

 

--You asked her out.

 

--You asked her out again.

 

--You pushed through your fears, made a move, and kissed her.

 

Even if the unthinkable happens and she says "let's just be friends" you should feel very proud of yourself man. No matter how long your story with this particular girl lasts, you now have an idea of what is possible when you take initiative.

Pretty close.

 

The last day I saw her at school was May 9th. After saying bye, I thought I'd never see her again. A couple of days later she Friended me on Facebook. Then she went on to initiate several chat sessions.

 

I expressed the first interest of wanting to go on a date with her if she was single, on the 16th. Our first "date" was on the 24th. Then I asked her out again, we had our date, pushed through my fears and got a couple of kisses.

 

Now I'm assuming I should try to set another date for around the same time next week?

 

Date 1 was hiking and the beach.

Date 2 was cursing around a nice outdoor mall, getting lunch, then walking around Laguna, getting gelato, then we went to a beach, different than the first.

 

Both were multi-hour day time dates.

 

I'm not sure yet what the next date should be. One thing that makes things complicated is that we live 45 minutes apart.

 

One thing I'd really like to do is take her salsa dancing. Though it's a late night activity and the club I go to is in my city. Needless to say, it's the perfect setup for her to stay the night. But I think it's still too soon for that. There is a salsa club close to where she lives, but that means I'll be doing a 45 minute drive back home at 11 pm.

 

So I'm at a loss for now.

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