The dating section is not that ful. Dating , is he is what they say he is?

[myname8]

So there is this guy; I am going to provide the background story for you all.

 

We have known each other since middle school. I actually had a crush on him; I would bother him and call him names like every other young girl with a crush. Unfortunately, when middle school was over he had to move. A year after (2009) we graduated high school (2008) I crossed paths with him.

 

I was at Hollister with my best friend when suddenly I hear my name. This guy came up to me and said “hey! It’s me john, how are you?” I honestly couldn’t remember him, he had changed. He looked amazing! Gorgeous body, gorgeous face, I was mesmerized. Finally, I came to my senses and initiated a conversation with him. We exchanged numbers and a week later he invited me to dinner. We talked and caught up since we last saw each other.

 

We went out for dinner two more times and I went over his house to watch movies about three times. When we were at his house he would hug me and cuddle with me but he never kissed me or initiated anything sexual. I saw it as him being respectful. The only thing I dislike was that we barely text, he wouldn’t commence contact as much. So then things got a bit complicated, he got busy with school and well I started a relationship with someone else.

 

It’s been three years since we last saw each other until about four months ago that I saw him at a restaurant. I was with one my close guy friends who is close to him (I was not aware of that). I told my friend “hey, what’s up with john? Is he still single?” and my friends said “He is single but don’t go for it, all he does is get with girls and then tell them that he is busy with school and doesn’t talk to them anymore and I don’t want that for you”. So I let it go. About three weeks ago we were talking thru facebook . Then about a week ago I left to spend the weekend at this resort. I posted pictures in facebook and he text me saying “You go to the diplomat and not invite me”. I told him “how am I supposed to know if you wanted to come.” He told me if I wanted to hang out that day to let him know but I ended up hanging out with some other friends instead.

 

So about two days ago I text him and we agreed on having some drinks tomorrow Friday. I am a little nervous because I like him but I can’t figure him out. I don’t know if what my friend said is true or not. I mean if he wanted just sex from me he could have done it, he had many opportunities. Also, I am a bit scared about how to act and what to talk about tomorrow. What do you guys think? I want to send him the sign that I like him but I also want to see what he wants.