scarletblue Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 Well, I posted a thread on here a few days ago about another woman wanting my fiance'. I just wanted to thank all of you who responded to me. It really helped a lot and I didn't feel like I was being nuts. Just an update... We talked and he admitted he was wrong. He admitted that he hadn't thought about my feelings. Originally, he thought it was no big deal because he'd just thought of her as a friend, so there was nothing fishy going on in his mind at all. It never occured to him. When I put it to him about the situation being reversed and me sitting on a guy's lap. He admitted that he'd be mad no matter who's lap it was. He also realized that the girl might have taken his actions completely differently than how he intended. So we've worked things out and the wedding is still on. You all helped me to stick to my guns and I thank you all.
kellydontwanttasleep Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 i think your wrong on how you reacted, but i am glad it's all working out. good luck
loveregardless Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 well considering the fact that the rest of us agree with you I am glad that you were able to work things out. It was a completely necessary conversation and you reacted exactly as you should of. Some people on here have no sexual boundries so of course they wouldn't react like the rest of us. Anyway...I'm so happy for you and I'm so glad that your fiance was so understanding. yay for you.
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