Inzie2015 Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 Ok so I was dating my ex for about 8 months and everything was great. We met online and just clicked so effortlessly it was crazy. We were an hour apart so only saw each other on the weekends. We never argued and always had an amazing time together. Well, 2 weeks ago he calls me and says we need to talk about us. He to,d me he doesn't see himself marrying me and that its just not progressing for him. I was so shocked because I was. Supposed to go see him the next day, he had been saying he missed me and loved me then bam he breaks up with me. I was so devastated because I honestly thought he was he one I was going to be with. He had one other serious gf who broke his heart then when he met me he said he hadn't loved anyone the way he did her until me, that's got to mean something right? I just want to understand what made him think this all of the sudden because I just don't get it. I cried for the first week straight and dropped 6 lbs, but im getting better but miss him like crazy. I can't shake that feeling that we are meant to be together, it's so frustrating.
mammasita Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 Im sorry this happened to you. I know how difficult it is. I was with someone for 2 years, living together - and it ended very similar to your situation. I know it hurts to hear this, but be thankful it was only 8 months.
Eddie Edirol Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 He had one other serious gf who broke his heart then when he met me he said he hadn't loved anyone the way he did her until me, that's got to mean something right? I just want to understand what made him think this all of the sudden because I just don't get it. I cried for the first week straight and dropped 6 lbs, but im getting better but miss him like crazy. I can't shake that feeling that we are meant to be together, it's so frustrating. No one would think this suddenly, he would have been thinking about it for a couple months. If you really want to know why, you will have to prod him for it, but dont expect a straight answer. Many people that are dumped wont accept any answers that they think they can work on. I think you were a long term rebound and he couldnt shake thoughts of his ex, so thats not your fault. Who knows how long hes been holding a torch for her.
Author Inzie2015 Posted May 30, 2013 Author Posted May 30, 2013 Well they have been broken up for 3 years before he met me so idk, it's just hard to believe I guess
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