matt29 Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 We had two little dogs which we both loved! I can't imagine how hard it would be for people that have kids anyway after my fiancée left me we both decided instead of splitting the dogs up and taking one each that we should keep them together. She suggested sharing them (one week each) I've decided this is not a good idea!! She would be more than happy to keep the dogs but she said she wouldn't want me to miss out.. Is this her way of keeping me in her life? She left me for grass is greener syndrome. Well so I think.. I've decided to let her keep the dogs. As hard as it is because I loved those dogs!! But I know I'll get over it.. I can always get another one! Anyway I've gone no contact with her so she is assuming we are still sharing the dogs. Should I let her know she can have them? Or just stick to the NC and vanish from her life? Thanks guys
aisuru Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 No contact. When my ex ex and I broke up, I took the damn cats he talked me into keeping. I eventually rehomed them as I had allergies start to get worse from them. He survived just fine when I took them. Though he was a little annoyed when I told I rehomed them over a year later. Not like he could afford to care for them! Good grief, don't allow her the link. It's better that way.
Leigh 87 Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 I have lost my two little dogs, my exes two little dogs who I loved, as well as 6 new puppies that were so adorable. It is pretty awful I'm not going to lie. I would take one each. You cannot deal with seeing your ex. It feels terrible to not be together yet have to see each other. Don't worry about separating them, they get more attached to their owners than they do each other, from my experience.
BustedUpInside Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 I have lost my two little dogs, my exes two little dogs who I loved, as well as 6 new puppies that were so adorable. It is pretty awful I'm not going to lie. I would take one each. You cannot deal with seeing your ex. It feels terrible to not be together yet have to see each other. Don't worry about separating them, they get more attached to their owners than they do each other, from my experience. No, no, no! Do not split them up. They have already had enough things change in their life and I am going to assume that you have a job. It is not fair to separate a dog from his whole family (pack) and then leave it alone all day while you are gone. Just let her have them. If you stay NC then she will get the message. It's not like she would just bring them over to your house after getting no feedback about when you want them. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. It really is like a divorce and you are the one who seems to be losing everything. It's not fair, but you have to think about what would be best for the animals and best for you and that really is for them to be together and for you to keep No Contact going.
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