lisrod Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 My girlfriend and I broke up two weeks ago. I was the dumper but realized it was a mistake but she wouldn't take me back because I had made the same mistake before (I guess that makes me the dumpee?) Anyway I went into NC a week ago but responded when she contacted me yesterday for my birthday. We spoke for about two hours. The conversation was perfect, much like our conversations when we first started dating. I could tell she was nervous, she told me she loved me and that she misses me and that she's upset that we didn't work out, etc. I went to bed last night thinking I had made great progress. Today she didn't text me all day I had to text her and it basically feels like I'm back at square one. Or maybe she is just busy? Should I be honest with her and tell her i'm only interested in reconciling or keep pretending to be okay with being friends?
aisuru Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 So you dumped this girl more than once? How long was the relationship? How long between dumpings? She's a little jaded with you. Each time you break somebody's heart and REJECT them, they trust you a little less. NO friendship. NO contact. Take some time. YOU broke up with her. SHE is choosing to honor that. You need more time. Sorry dude.
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