jrb Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 I am a 19-year-old guy. Right now I am ****ing two girls regularly, my girlfriend (18) and my ex (19). (No, neither one knows about the other and yes, I realize it's wrong but it feels so good and I'm not ready to cut all ties with my ex.) So here's my problem... I like to **** without condoms and am scared sh*tless of getting one or the other girl pregnant. I try to time things carefully and avoid ****ing (or at least pull out) at dangerous times of the month. I know that this isn't perfect but I've been lucky so far. My girlfriend is Catholic and won't use the pill. My ex has used it in the past, but not reliably, so I can't really count on her. Both girls are opposed the abortion, which is what really scares me. So here's my question for other guys... Is anyone else in the same situation -- maybe ****ing more than one girl, maybe taking more risks than he should be? What do you do about it? Do you just enjoy the pleasure and ignore the fear? Do you confront one or both girls and insist that they use the pill? Do you give up the sensation and use condoms? Does the fear of pregnancy sometimes wreck the pleasure for you? Any serious advice / experience would be really helpful. Justin P.S.: Please, no flames -- I want to hear your experiences but with no judgment involved.
Merin Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 Originally posted by jrb I am a 19-year-old guy. Right now I am ****ing two girls regularly, my girlfriend (18) and my ex (19). (No, neither one knows about the other and yes, I realize it's wrong but it feels so good and I'm not ready to cut all ties with my ex.) So here's my problem... I like to **** without condoms and am scared sh*tless of getting one or the other girl pregnant. I try to time things carefully and avoid ****ing (or at least pull out) at dangerous times of the month. I know that this isn't perfect but I've been lucky so far. My girlfriend is Catholic and won't use the pill. My ex has used it in the past, but not reliably, so I can't really count on her. Both girls are opposed the abortion, which is what really scares me. So here's my question for other guys... Is anyone else in the same situation -- maybe ****ing more than one girl, maybe taking more risks than he should be? What do you do about it? Do you just enjoy the pleasure and ignore the fear? Do you confront one or both girls and insist that they use the pill? Do you give up the sensation and use condoms? Does the fear of pregnancy sometimes wreck the pleasure for you? Any serious advice / experience would be really helpful. Justin P.S.: Please, no flames -- I want to hear your experiences but with no judgment involved. You want to hear experience but no judgment involved.. *Whew* Well Justin, Good Luck with that.. maybe the next post will be LESS judmental. Justin, are you aware that this is how STD's are spread? You THINK neither one of these girls are having sex with anyone except you.. what because that's what they tell you? Hmmm kind of like thats what YOU tell THEM uh? So pregnancy, yeah it should scare you.. but HIV and other STD's ought to scare you more. It's interesting that you don't want any judment involved regarding your post.. because it is kind of the same mind set you have that you want to engage in sex recklessly and have no responsibility for your own actions either. Not even getting into the right or wrong of lying to 2 girls about your honesty, and intergrity..
Matilda Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 Sorry, more judgment here. You need to start thinking with the head that's above your shoulders a little bit more. It is highly likely that one, or even both, of these girls will get pregnant. They are young, and very fertile, as are you. Think of the potential child/children that might come from this situation. Are you really willing to risk that for your pleasure? This is your whole life we're talking about here.
katie79 Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 No offense Justin, but this is a silly question. Of course this isn't the first post of "Can I/she get pregnant without using any contraceptives?", but this kind of a question doesn't require a PHD to answer! Duh... You have unprotected sex with any woman of child-bearing age, of course she can get pregnant! Who cares if you don't like condoms? Do you like taking care of children? At your young age? What about AIDS and herpes? How do you know these women aren't banging other guys? You might not be the "only one". Don't believe what they tell you, especially if you are doing the exact same thing. Cheating and lying. Giving possible STD's to your g/f from the other girl or vice versa. Do you care about their health and yours? Don't you have any self-respect? You get one of these girls pregnant, they are obviously going to have it. One doesn't believe in the pill and the other is undependable. What if they're pregnant now? Both of them at worst? No offense again, but you aint going to be getting too much action with the extra baggage of kids at such an incredibly young age. When girls meet you, a big "X" will be put over you, and they'll find someone with no extra added baggage to bang! Not a turn on! Your risking hurting these girls, spreading disease (yourself in cluded), getting them both pregnant, and hurting an innocent baby's life. Not fair to yourself, them, or a possible child. Condoms are important. Wear them! Tough sh*t if you don't like them. I know your thinking your having a blast, but the last laugh may be on you.
LittleMiss Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 hmmm....you want experience ....you got it. I was 19 and liked to have fun and party and was not on birth control. I thought I was pretty lucky that I hadn't got pregnant from my boyfriend since we had been having unprtected sex for two years. Well lets just say my luck ran out and now I have a two year old son and his father is no where in sight because he's an immature prick that still only cares about having fun and partying. Don't be stupid...if you're not ready for a child then protect yourself, not only for your sake and the girls but also for the child. No child needs to be put on this earth with a father who doesn't want it.
Naive Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 I'm not going to go into how wrong you are for two-timing these 2 girls because I am sure you know! Anyways, if you are scared to get one or both of them pregnant why don't YOU put a condom on your mr. happy and make it at least a bit more safe or these poor girls and for yourself. If you want to f*ck them so bad at least be responsible and put a condom on, it's not going to be the end of the world you know!
humph.. Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 No judgement hey? I think you're in the wrong forum Don Juan.. Find a group of people with no morals and no sense of right/wrong and safety to give you an answer, because frankly, that's what you're hoping for, right? For us to tell you what you're doing is ok and not to worry because you won't get either girl pregnant? I have to say, you are one big idiot for behaving this way. Your reason? "It feels good". Well, imagine your sister or your friend or someone YOU cared about getting f*cked without a condom, being decieved and potentially exposed to STDs and unwanted pregnancies.. ..or think about the fact that these girls might be the ones doing the dirty on YOU....because, hell, maybe it "feels good" for them to sleep with a few guys at a time too. Neither girl knows about the other, You're, as you put it sooooooo nicely f*cking both of them, without protection, and you want US not to pass judgement on this behaviour??? grow up and for gods sake, stop f*cking these girls before you f*ck up their lives.
Papillon Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 This is the dumbest thread ever. Jrb, you're not looking for advice, you're looking for justification and/or encouragement. You suck. Hope your gf finds out. What you're doing is disgusting, and I personally reject you as a man. You're not part of MY gender. Go find your own species. Pig. Or something.
tokyo Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 You are such a bloody selfish sh*thead. I hope you read this before the mods delete this post, but someone has to tell you the truth.
Papillon Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 Yeah. Sh*thead. That's it. Next time you screw a girl, listen closely to that "squishy-squishy" sound. It's actually "****head, ****head"
Adunaphel Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 The only serious, non-judgemental advice I could give you is: from now onward, for everyone's sake, have sex *only* and *exclusively*with your right (or left) hand. (This way if you don't like the feeling of a condom at least you won't put other people's health at stake.)
Papillon Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 Will the one hand know he's cheating on it with the other?
Adunaphel Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 Originally posted by Papillon Will the one hand know he's cheating on it with the other? It is irrilevant . The girls should know though, I feel sorry for them. I just hope the thread-starter post is a hoax.
Karlise13 Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 .....and they ALL think they're the ****, too. Here's a joke for you: What do you call people who pull out? Parents. Good luck changing didies!!!
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