alliance159 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I hope this is the right place for this.... Anyways, I may have gotten myself into a bit of a situation. About a month ago, I was convinced to give online dating a try. Based on how bad it was for most guys, I had very low expectations, so I figured I would have to use the "cast a big net" approach. To my surprise, the whole thing ended up being quite overwhelming, as I ended up going on many first dates. All of which ended up with either a 2nd date or the option of a 2nd if I had chose so. I ended up talking with two girls in particular, girl A and girl B. Girl A contacted me first by sending me an email. We talked back and forth for a bit and eventually we met in person and hit it of quite well. We also went on a second date that went very well. During this, Girl B contacted me via a "wink." Since I had no idea how things would with Girl A, I sent girl B an email. Again, we emailed back and forth and eventually we agreed to meet for the first time today (Wednesday). Well, I ended up seeing Girl A again this past Monday and again yesterday (Tuesday). On Monday, we had our first kiss and cuddled quite a bit. At this point I cancelled my date with Girl B today, primarily because of the way things were evolving with A, but also because my parents were in from out of town and are staying with me. However, I told B I couldn't get together because of my parents, and she said she would still like to get together later in the week. When Girl A and I were together yesterday, it was more of the same as Monday, but much more intense. I also spent the night at her house (no sex or anything like that though). I am at the point now where I don't want to date anyone else and I want to put all of my effort into Girl A. But here is my problem...Before Girl A and I got together yesterday, she had dinner with a good friend of hers. Through the course of normal conversation, I realized that her good friend she just had dinner with a few minutes before was Girl B! Obviously I had not idea at first, but I need to let Girl B know that I have decided not to meet up with her at all. Normally I wouldn't have much of an issue with this, but if things go the way I hope between Girl A and I, its only a matter of time before I will have to meet Girl B, but in what could be a super awkward situation. How can I tell Girl B that I can't meet her, because things have picked up considerably with someone else, who is also a good friend of her, so that if I do meet Girl B, but am dating Girl A, it won't be awkward?
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