myriam5182 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Okay here's my dilemma not sure if I should cut it off with this guy I wrote a forum here about a week ago and decided to give it one more date I did and had a fantastic time! Heres my problem We only see each other like every other week or sometimes every 3 weeks because he'll ask so late and I have plans already(plus I have a son)..... I really like him and I feel like he digs me to but he only wants to hang out every other week To me if a guy likes they would want to see you more right?! Well I can tell he's still shopping ..... buuut there were times he wanted to see me the following week but I had plans plus he asked the morning of which I dont do Im not an option....just saying. Anywho. We had a really great time the last date he told me he had an amazing time and even texted me the next 2 days to say hey and I responded. I really like him yes were still dating getting to know each other.... I hate seeing him every two weeks , I know hes shopping around dating etc... Any advice is appreciated and be nice lol thanks! PS Also I think what I think bums he out Ill give you guys the short version (I googled him wish I didnt nothing bad) but I am a single mom that does make time to have me time and go out and in the last year I have dropped a lot of my friends because of my sons father and his infidelity (thats a whole other LONG story lol) I work part time and dont have much of a social life ( I do go out and miss my nights before my son not the crazy nights just night out with the girls etc... anywho) when I googled him he has a ton of friends plus hes younger hes 26 going on 27 I just turned 31. So he has a much more social life than I do tons of friends sleeps in all day. I feel different because Im a mom but he said to me on our last date what he liked about me Im a mom that still makes time for myself to have a life (I never went out the first 3yrs my son was born rarely just started dating etc) well I found nothing bad on his FB just him hanging out with some girl but it looked casual/friendly either or hes not mine so.... okay I made this one long any advice is appreciated please be nice, thanks!
bob the brave Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I would say it is still early. Go with your heart. You are cautious and that is a must! Good for you and don't feel bad. It seems like you make be a bit trepid, afraid of getting involved with another cheater and yet would, at the same time like the realtionship to move a bit faster, develope into something closer. you are experienced here, so just take your time, follow your heart, but trust your cut. It's difficult, I know, but don't get suckered in by a great smile. Look for things like does he sacrifice for others sake, is he compasionate towards those for which he has nothing to gain. If yes, to any of these, he's probably good.
Author myriam5182 Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 It is to early to tell your right. Your right I have experience with all this and it is going to slow for me just don't know .....I have a great time with him he makes me laugh tooons! To early to know if he is compassionate and anything else.... I just really like him and don't want to be an option I'm a relationship girl.....
Eggplant Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 Meet other people. Go out with him again if you want, but don't take it too seriously. If he wants you, he'll step it up, or you'll find somebody with more interest.
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