Hereiam007 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Hi, My friend hasn't met this person from online, but she gave him the adores, and he is showering her with photos of himself in a frame, and declaring his love to her, and wants to marry her. he hasn't even seen a photo of her except one of her 20 years ago. He calls and leaves kissing and sucking slurping sounds on her voice recorder. And he wants to set aside 3 weeks so he can be be with her. He claims he is a wealthy individual and his father has millions, and promises her the penthouse suite in life. What can I say to my female friend about this behavior? He is going to her house on the first date. She gave him the physical address. Thank you in advance for your thoughts.
melodicintention Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Um, hire a security guard or a rent a cop to protect her now that she gave out her address to this nut? Wow that sounds extremely dangerous. Your friend is taking a serious risk. Wow. Scary. Hope he turns out to be safe after all. 2
aussietigerwolf Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 if i was her friend then id make sure i was with her and well armed... 2
Author Hereiam007 Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 Has anyone had a stalker friend before or know of this behavior in some guys? Thanks all for posting.
GB25 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 You should definitely not have this freakshow over you're house bad idea oops i mean you're friend shouldnt.. 1
todreaminblue Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) Has anyone had a stalker friend before or know of this behavior in some guys? Thanks all for posting. i think that sounds disgusting leaving slurping noises on a voice recorder......if a stalker has to ask where you live.....to me.....they are not as dangerous as the ones that don't have to ask where you live.......also dangerous psychotics......dont normally coem across that way they are charming........friendly....nice....respectful.....that's the hook........and then.....when you feel safe and secure..........you suddenly realize ...you arent safe........and there's no one who you have told otherwise...thats my experience with being stalked.....you dont know you are being stalked thats the idea of stalking...to remain hidden....subterfuge...isnt out there....its elusive......stalking is under cover this guy your friend has, is out there and yes he is quite a bit unhinged...probably lonely......had quite a few rejections and sounds a little desperate....why is your friend continuing the conversations with him......you have to find out where her head's at to deal with her not the guy...she needs to cut off........why isnt she that is the question.....you need to find out where the guy lives or she needs to know....that si where the restraining order will have to be sent if it needs to be...most guys who are out there....retreat pretty quickly when they are rejected to nurse their hurt hearts......your friend needs to go public if she is meeting guys off the net.......not to their house and not her house.....public and protected by volumes of witnesses.......or even chaperones of friends or family......she isnt keeping secrets thats good i think it is better to know an unhinged out there slurpy voice recorder guy than to not realize a stalker is on your tail....far more dangerous a situation......deb Edited May 29, 2013 by todreaminblue 1
charlietheginger Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 The only way to scare off a crazy guy is to be crazier then him Meet in public for dinner Be rude short bitchy Use the glazed bipolar eye stare Erratic mood swings Complain about your meal Talk bad about ex boyfriends This will chase him away..... Oh in otherwards just be a woman ! 1
hppr Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Just wait, some guy will post up about a girl he met online who sent him hot photos and they had phone sex etc for weeks, then they finally met up in person she was 20 years older and told him to leave immediately. Somehow, somewhere, this'll happen.
shexy Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 She gave him her address and invited him over???? Oh, hell no!!!! 1
apple OR orange Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 can you make sure he has this forum, we are ready to answer the "she sent me a pic that didnt even look like her".....
Vinegar Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 get her to change her mind and if he comes don't answer the door. Have her find a way out of it. say she gave him the wrong address. This is so dangerous this guy is not safe at all. 1
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