KennyGardener Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 So I met this girl 3 years ago my last year of college. We talked for like 3 weeks and went on one date but she ended up saying she didn't want to use me as an emotional crutch cause she just broke up with her year long bf. So last week I commented on a photo of hers on fb and she commented back so I sent her a msg saying I enjoy talking to her when I do and I gave her my number and told her to txt me sometime. She messages me back within 30 seconds and gives me her number telling me to give her a txt anytime. We live about 2 hours from each other so is she just being nice or is interested in getting to know me again? I would think in this situation she would have just ignored my message on fb if she wasn't interested? I'm 25 shes 24. Also I did msg her on fb last summer but didn't ask for her number or anything. We just talked about what we were doing now.
BLS Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 How long has it been since the date and fb conversation? Also, type in paragraphs
Author KennyGardener Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) The date was both of our senior year in college and that was maybe two and a half years ago. I messaged her on fb like 7 days ago and that's when she gave me her number after I gave her mine. I did txt her 5 days ago after she gave me her number on fb and we texted for around an hour or more. I remember her being shy in college if that helps any lol Edited May 29, 2013 by KennyGardener
Author KennyGardener Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 Ok I'll try to call maybe. I'm pretty shy myself and for some reason I'm more scared of her than most girls I've talked to. I really have no experience accept first and second dates with girls and I'm 25 so I know what I'm doing to a point but am too shy to do what I want to do. I also over analyze this stuff waaayyyy too much. It's just if I call I will not know what to say and will be horribly nervous. Thanks for your help.
juicygirl Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Lose the smoke screen of fb and texting, call her and ask her out. No movie dates, take her to dinner, talk laugh,drink a few glasses of wine if that helps lol. No seriously, you're nerves because you like her and you don't want to screw it up, but appear confident (even if you're pretending) women like confident men. Oh and yes she likes you so far or you wouldn't have her number. 1
NYC-BigKat Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Ok I'll try to call maybe. I'm pretty shy myself and for some reason I'm more scared of her than most girls I've talked to. I really have no experience accept first and second dates with girls and I'm 25 so I know what I'm doing to a point but am too shy to do what I want to do. I also over analyze this stuff waaayyyy too much. It's just if I call I will not know what to say and will be horribly nervous. Thanks for your help. You'r just like me . I get so so nervous around pretty girls but I still push myself really really hard to make a move anyway.
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