jomill Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Hello everybody. I was wondering. Is it okay to kiss someone good-bye you don't know that much? (Only on the cheek of course. ) Or would it be too much? I know that friends kiss or hug each other when greeting or saying good-bye. But we are not exactly friends. I told the one honestly that I feel a lot sympathy and affection. Okay...Perhabs I was a bit too honest and too sudden. As already said, we actually don't know each other. Never mind. It happened already some months ago. But I can't get it out of my mind. It's a heavy crush...But it feels like a Crash sometimes. In a month we see each other for the last time and I feel that I should say good-bye - although I have a couple of days left to some kind of get to know "the person". But it's very unlikely that my efforts would be welcome. Well I don't know...but I believe. And I thought that a kiss could be the right thing to do. It's cute...and...yeah...and it's a kiss on the cheek. That's for sure. Afterwards we probably won't see each other again but nevertheless I don't want to ruin the person's opinion of mine. I don't want that we have to feel bad or something like that. What's your opinion?
will1988 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Is this someone you are romantically interested in? Are you a man or woman? Do you live in the States or abroad? If you live in the states and are I man, I must say "NO!". That will make you seem like a creep, and even sexual harassment. If you are European or something, you can do it I guess. If you are a woman, than go a head and do it. However, don't take it the wrong way if this guy thinks you want some tounge action too!
amy10 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I think if you don't know this person that well you shouldn't kiss them goodbye. The best thing to do would be to give them a hug and tell them your going to miss them. A kiss would probably freak them out if they didn't know it's coming and if you still want to keep in touch just leave them with a hug. If you want more than a friendship with them why don't you just tell them how you feel. If they are leaving anyway you will have nothing much to loose. 1
Author jomill Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 Romantically interested? I guess so..Well. I don't know. And I'm a man living in Europe.
will1988 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Romantically interested? I guess so..Well. I don't know. And I'm a man living in Europe. Are you French, Spanish, or Italian (and or one of the old Yugoslav countries)? I know those places don't frown upon the kissing of a person's cheek. But here in the states, if a guy was to do that to a woman he didn't know the most likely out come is a slap on the face.... and if you are unlucky a kick to the manly bits and or a call to the cops. Use your own discretion.
Author jomill Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 @amy10 If you want more than a friendship with them why don't you just tell them how you feel. I already did. But all I got is that it's cute what I said and that she believes that we should leave it that way. Nothing more. That's okay for me. As already said it happened some months ago and I don't expect anything. But of course I'm a bit sad that I got no real chance. The problem is that there is no friendship...and that it was too sudden for her. ;-) @will1988 Are you French, Spanish, or Italian (and or one of the old Yugoslav countries)? [...] I know those places don't frown upon the kissing of a person's cheek. [...] I'm German. It's difficult to say. Perhabs I should just go for it and see what I get. A kiss could be a bit sudden. But it would be only a peck on the cheek. Hm.
will1988 Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 wuerde ich nicht tun wenn ich du waere then again, it is your call. Maybe a nice long hug and see how that goes. 1
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