CheckIt Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Girl came onto me and we hit it off. We've hung out (not dates) a couple times and she enjoyed it. It was pretty obvious that we both liked each other and later on she did say she liked me but didnt want to jump into anything. said we've only hung out a few times and shes not ready for any sort of relationship but still wants to talk to me and all. We don't text that much to begin with, and she actually wanted me to know that shes the type of person to do her own thing, and said shes sorry if she doesnt text me a lot and stuff. she also said she mostly forgets. At first she usually texted me more often but now that she knows that i like her she doesnt text me as much. Its either she replies instantly, takes hours, or doesnt reply at all. We know quite a lot about each other already and the whole texting thing kinda faded. Like i texted her something (it was more of a statement) and she didnt reply the whole day but i knew she checked her phone. Should i just wait and see if she texts me first and not worry about it? I'm not a big texter myself but idk..
Chief Wiggum Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I'd give up hopes on trying to bag her, if I were you. So yeah, cut down the texts. Better yet, stop all together. Because what she's just done there is secured you as one of her potentials. You're now on the list alongside 2 or 3 other guys that's she's also talking to, and her telling you "I'm not ready to commit" is basically her saying "I haven't made my decision on who I want to pick yet". And if she's cut down her contact with you, then it probably means you're lower down on that list of hers. So yeah, if I were you I'd only message her when she messages you, and I'd move on to the next person.
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