NM1901 Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 I am a 25 year old male virgin but I'm getting very close to having sex with my girlfriend.In fact it will probably happen this week. I am always hard around her but I'm just worried everything will be ok when the time comes to actually have sex? Shes given me handjobs and blowjobs and I've had no problems.Is this just first time jitters? Is there a such thing as waiting too long to have sex?Meaning will I be OK when I actually have sex with my girlfriend? Are all these just I hope first time jitters or legit concerns?please give me some advice from experienced peolpe male or female.Thanks NM
savethedrama4allama Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Yep, everyone gets the jitters! You will be fine. Just enjoy yourself, and remember not to get too focused on pleasing her or being pleased yourself. Keep it as 50/50 as you can and everyone will have a good time. Good luck!
Merin Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 You'll be fine;) Just some "First time jitters" Try to relax... remember to breath and enjoy the experience.
Naive Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 I'm sure it will come naturally to you. R-E-L-A-X and enjoy the ride
HokeyReligions Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Is she also a virgin? Use protection. Communicate with each other. Don't be afraid to say what you want and to listen to her when she says what she wants If you are uncomfortable with a certain act, leave it for later -- you don't have to do everything at one time. Relax. Use protection.
SoleMate Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 I am sure you will be fine. Do be aware that performance anxiety and nerves can make it difficult to get an erection. This happens to just about every male out there upon occasion. If it happens to you, please do whatever you can to relax and take the focus OFF of you and onto your gf and her enjoyment. She's a big girl and doubtless knows that this can happen. I hope YOU have experience using your hands and mouth to pleasure her. If so, it'll probably go a lot smoother. Do read up a few basics like about "female lubrication". The female sexual response is different from the male. I would also advise not to expect that first time sex will be astounding. You may not "rock her world". It's like riding a bike - the first few times can be a little wobbly and nervous. That's why people take the chance to practice whenever possible - they're still trying to perfect the experience, even after 20 or 30 years.
Author NM1901 Posted October 4, 2004 Author Posted October 4, 2004 Shes is not a virgin but she has only been with one guy. She has already told me that she is ready when I am ready.She anythime feel free to do it.So I can basically do it when I want. She is on bith control though.Thanks NM
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