amy10 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 This is my 2nd post. I posted yesterday but don't want to write it all again. Basicaly I live with my ex who left me for someone else ( We have been together 5 years and have been really good)Then she ended up not being interested in him so he's now alone. I thought I was over him as it's been a month since he broke up with me, but I'm not. Last night I thought yep it's ok who needs him anyway I'm better of without him and he's not worth it even though I still love him. I got up this morning feeling like s**t so naturally I look like it too. I start hanging out some washing and he asked me why are you doing that? I tell him because it needs done that's why. so we get into our first argument since the break up he says he doesn't feel like this is his home because i'm always doing things like tidying, fine i tell him do something your self then. he tells me just because i feel bad doesn't mean i can take it out on him fair enough I guess I was kinda grumpy with him. just to clarify we are both in the situation where we can't move out yet. I got upset because of him mainly but also because of things in my family that i am trying to deal with. so he hugs me after adding in that I make him unhappy just what I need to hear thanks!! So now I feel even worse and he says sorry I thought we were talking about when we were in a relationship you don't make me unhappy when you live with me..... well maybe just some things you do. err like what? he won't tell me. He goes on saying that I should have tried harder in our relationship by having a bit more "fire" and telling him I wanted to do things when I wanted to do them and not let him tell me he was busy with college work that day. I have no idea how I was meant to force him out of important college work to do things that I wanted. He made me sound selfish which i am not all I wanted was for him to be happy which he looked like he was all the way through out relationship. I ended up telling him not to hug me because you can't hug someone and hurt them at the same time. He left for college saying that he just didn't want a relationship. wow it took him 5 years to work that out. What should I do to get through to him that he's being a complete jerk? sorry about rambling on but I could really do with some advice. Iv'e talked to my friends but they don't understand why I can't let him go. can someone tell me why I still let him hurt me and why I can't seem to not sill love him?? thanks for reading this.
Treasa Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Why are you still living with this douche? I would have told him to go pound sand, OR, shut the **** up unless he wants to see how fast I can snap. I mean, for God's sake, you were just hanging up wet clothes. Please, get out of there. He's an *******. 1
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