Lgminus Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Hey everybody, I’ve found myself in a situation that is confusing me! There’s a girl who I’ve been flirty with over the past few months. We used to see each other a little bit every day via work but I’ve since moved into a different office. We now communicate primarily via texts, usually just having a laugh. We’ve managed to meet for lunch twice (a while ago now) since I moved. I basically asked her last Thursday if she fancied hanging out sometime this week after work. This was via text (mistake I know, but we’ve never spoken on the phone and I thought it wouldn’t be necessary). She ignored this message until Monday, when she messaged to apologise and explain that she’d had a busy weekend. She asked how I was doing but didn’t make any reference to my suggestion of hanging out. Intuition tells me that she is hoping what I said will go away because she doesn’t want to disappoint me. But this confuses me as she’d previously agreed that we should get together sometime. We get on great and I think there is a mutual attraction. I like her and don’t want to give up easily. Should I ask her out about it? Should I leave her to ask me if she wants to? How soon should I ask her again without seeming pushy? Feel free to ask any Qs. Cheers, N
BruinFan95 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Ask again. Bring up what her plans are for the weekend, but do it naturally. If she's free ask her for dinner or plan something. You know her better. If she cant make it and if she doesn't try to make time for you then kick her to the curb cause she's not into you. What I've been learning is that women don't do anything with men they don't want to. If she wants time with you, she'll make some. Ask her today WED as its in the middle of the week and early enough where she probably wouldn't have planned anything with other people. If you wait, it just allows more people to take her time. I would've asked her again when she responded to you on Monday. Best of luck
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