kyle77 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I am 20 years old and in university. I should be dating tons of girls and really figuring out the type of person I want to end up with one day. But I can't. The last girl I dated broke up with me about 2ish years ago. She was my first love so it took me a long time to get over her. Now I feel like I am over her, and honestly if she wanted me back I don't think I would take her back. The problem is though that for some reason I havent been able to date or meet anyone new since. It's like an invisible barrier holding me back. Girls have been interested in me on several occasions since, its just I for some reason can't commit to them. What I really need to know is how to get out of this funk I am in and start dating girls again.
Suave Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 You can't be comparing new girls you meet to an ex. They are your ex for a reason. Know how to get out of this funk? Forget about your ex. Just do it. These girls are here now and your ex is not. Live in the now.
Author kyle77 Posted May 29, 2013 Author Posted May 29, 2013 I don't try to, maybe I am subconsciously comparing them to my ex though. It just seems like I am over her but at the same time not. Like I don't want to be with her yet I subconsciously am stopping myself from being with someone else.
ChessPieceFace Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I am 20 years old and in university. I should be dating tons of girls You should? I must have missed that memo. At my university I studied to get A's, involved myself in activities and made friends. 2
BruinFan95 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I am 20 years old and in university. I should be dating tons of girls and really figuring out the type of person I want to end up with one day. But I can't. The last girl I dated broke up with me about 2ish years ago. She was my first love so it took me a long time to get over her. Now I feel like I am over her, and honestly if she wanted me back I don't think I would take her back. The problem is though that for some reason I havent been able to date or meet anyone new since. It's like an invisible barrier holding me back. Girls have been interested in me on several occasions since, its just I for some reason can't commit to them. What I really need to know is how to get out of this funk I am in and start dating girls again. Its yourself. Are there chains around you, a gun to your head? No right, so the only person keeping you from dating is your own mind. Quit trying to find the next gf and just date. You only dated 1 person 2 years ago, there are SO MANY TYPES OF WOMEN out there. If what you say is true and there are girls into you, then go out with them. Not even seriously but just to get the ball rolling. You're trying to run a marathon when you're out of shape, ya know. 1 step at a time
MidwestUSA Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 You should? I must have missed that memo. At my university I studied to get A's, involved myself in activities and made friends.And, at some point, that hopefully leads into dating. Keep active and involved, meeting new people. Thoughts of your ex will fade. Best wishes!
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