his ex(new gf) unblocked me and requested me on my ex's profile WHY?

[jehcann]

this girl is CRAZY she's horrible. she treated him like **** cheated on him, lied to him, played him did pretty much every horrible thing you can do in a relationship, SHE DID IT. i was with him for 10 1/2 months she came and took his back. why is she getting on his profile and adding me? what is she getting out of it? my gut told me this was going on so i deleted him and blocked him but i unblocked him and now i have to wait 2 days to block him again:(

 

WHY IS SHE ADDING ME ON HIS ****? WHAT MORE DOES SHE WANT TO DO TO ME? i just dont understand.

[aisuru]

More important... Why do you care?

 

This sounds like an incredibly unhealthy and toxic situation.

 

You deserve better than this drama.

[jehcann]

i do deserve better then this drama. im over it! i will never shed another tear for this loser. he has totally lost all of my respect. i care because i want to know why she's adding me? what is she getting out of adding me on his profile? idgi.

[smorgenHeckengard]

She probably just wants to scope you out. It's human nature to be curious. She probably wants to see what the girl who replaced her for all those months look like.

 

Don't give it more thought then you need to. You'll drive youself crazy.

[jehcann]

she already knows what i look like. ive talked to her before. i tried being the bigger person and i tried to be friends with her. she told me numerous times she's glad he is with me, she doesnt want him. she's glad i make him so happy. so no she already knows who i am. we've been friends on fb before. i have her blocked bc she would not leave me alone.

 

why is this girl doing this to me? she has her ex back, i dont want him. if he wants to pick that trash over me PLEASE. i just dont understand why she's stalking me.

[aisuru]

she already knows what i look like. ive talked to her before. i tried being the bigger person and i tried to be friends with her. she told me numerous times she's glad he is with me, she doesnt want him. she's glad i make him so happy. so no she already knows who i am. we've been friends on fb before. i have her blocked bc she would not leave me alone.

 

why is this girl doing this to me? she has her ex back, i dont want him. if he wants to pick that trash over me PLEASE. i just dont understand why she's stalking me.

 

Because now you're the ex she has to worry about. That's why.

 

And, she got you riled up. Don't give her that power.

 

So not worth it.

[lost.girl]

Well if she is really as callous as you say I think her adding you is for one of two reasons

 

1. She wants to test her boyfriend and see if you two try to message each other and what you say

 

2. She wants to gloat and show off how oh so happy they are together with pics and lovey wall posts

 

It's just a sick game for her amusement really, just wait the two days and block him again because she won't stop. Some people live for this sick game

[jehcann]

it's not that she got me riled up honestly. she doesnt have any power over me, trust me. i guess it's a respect thing? we're adults we're all almost 23 years old. it's just so catty and i dont understand why she wants to hurt me. she knows that i loved him and she knows that he loved me. but he left me to go back to her. which she knows it killed me but i even told her before she can have him, im not going to fight her over him. im not stooping to her level. she already knows what im about and it's realness. i just cant wrap my head around why she is getting on his profile and reaching out to me pretending to be him.

 

i look at this as a good sign, this was the push i needed to get over him, and you best believe i am done.

[lost.girl]

The thing is this, you are over it and trying to move on but I bet she simply can't stand that he was with you in the first place. Now she has to validate herself to you that he is just so so much happier with her then he ever was with you and you meant nothing.

 

It's a sick ex girlfriend game. Don't rise to it because at the end of the day she is the one whose ego is so desperate for validation that she has to try and kick dirt in your face. Absolute scum bag.

[jehcann]

she DUMPED him, she wanted nothing to do with him. SHE moved on and so did he. SHE could not keep a man bc she's a b___h. she couldnt handle the fact that he was with the same girl for almost a year and she HAD to break it up. i honestly believe this, she's so horrible she would do something like this. one day his mom ran into her grandmother and told him how happy he is with me and that im such a great person you know saying amazing things. EVERYONE close to him will say wonderful things about me bc i was good to him. EVERYONE close to him KNOWS he is making a mistake. NO ONE IN HIS FAMILY LIKED HER, they all loved me SHE WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS ME. he will never be happy with her bc she's a liar and a cheater and a horrible person which is plain to see. he went from being with a b___h to a sweet heart. he went from having a horrible relationship and having a horrible gf to having an amazing relationships and amazing gf. i sound like im full of myself but im not it'll never work between them it didnt before and it wont now. if she's trying to do that she wont do it, she can fool my ex all she wants but she's not fooling me. everyone knows that man was happy with me, everyone knows that man loved me. she'll never make me think less of what we had. it's horrible that people can be this disguising, it honestly is. she's a horrible person and her karma will hit her hard one day, while my good karma has me on cloud nine:)

[lost.girl]

You know what, whether or not she would ever voice it is quite slim, but the only reason she would feel this way is if she agreed with you. She knows he was happy with you as well as his friends and family and probably drives her insane.

 

You don't have to wait for karma because it's already slapping her across the face. She is replaceable and by better. Sometimes if your lucky god lets you watch the karma backlash. Grab some popcorn and enjoy the show because if she is doing all this, she is about to have a meltdown when you don't respond

[jehcann]

You know what, whether or not she would ever voice it is quite slim, but the only reason she would feel this way is if she agreed with you. She knows he was happy with you as well as his friends and family and probably drives her insane.

 

You don't have to wait for karma because it's already slapping her across the face. She is replaceable and by better. Sometimes if your lucky god lets you watch the karma backlash. Grab some popcorn and enjoy the show because if she is doing all this, she is about to have a meltdown when you don't respond

 

 

haha can i say that i love you? honestly you've made me feel a lot better. thank you for replying to me and talking with me. she knows herself he was happy and im glad it's eating away at her♥ im glad it drives her insane. im glad it slapping her in the face, she deserves it. ♥ you're the best! honestly!

[lost.girl]

Awww hey no problem Ive dealt with my fair share of crazy ex's and have been one a time or two myself lol So I know how it goes, sometimes you just need someone to point out the obvious for you to have the light bulb moment and say "Ohhh I see.... you guys are pathetic hahaha"

 

Just sleep well knowing she is the one twisted up with emotion over you, ahh lovely lovely karma

[jehcann]

Awww hey no problem Ive dealt with my fair share of crazy ex's and have been one a time or two myself lol So I know how it goes, sometimes you just need someone to point out the obvious for you to have the light bulb moment and say "Ohhh I see.... you guys are pathetic hahaha"

 

Just sleep well knowing she is the one twisted up with emotion over you, ahh lovely lovely karma

 

oh girl im gonna sleep like a baby! ive never been an crazy ex and i never will be im an analyzer i learn from peoples mistakes. she's gonna crack and treat him like **** again, their gonna break up AGAIN. he's gonna try to come back and well **** looks like i get to watch karma slap someone else in the face:) being a good person is really paying off right now. i can not tell you how happy you have made me.

[lost.girl]

Oh Im so glad Honestly though just do NOT respond to her in any way!! When she can't get what she wants from you she is going to start turning on him and making him miserable! Don't take him back sweetheart, if he could leave you for someone that mean and unstable then he will do it again!

 

You keep your head up knowing at the end of the day she is the one thinking about you and what you and him had together and comparing. It's a psychotic circle and I know your hurting now but believe me these toxic people will not go away once the get it in there head someone "belongs" to them.

[jehcann]

im not responding, im not stooping to her level. im not stooping to his. i cant wait for her to turn on him, i cant wait. omg this is the greatest thing. honestly. it's gonna kill me that he's being hurt bc i never wouldve hurt him but he chose this it's outta my hands:rolleyes: im not taking him back i am so much better then all of this and tonight truly showed me that im better off. he only screwed his self by leaving me. i cant wait for him to realize it. i a million percent agree with everything you have said. i hope she continues to compare, i hope little by little it eats away at her. i hope she gets everything she deserves, i honestly do. at the end of the day im happy, im free. im already a much stronger person and it's only been 2 weeks i cant wait to see how great i turn out in a few months. im going to continue to work out, lose weight and become a knock out while their miserable together:) good things happen to good people♥ bad people get the bad things. she may think that she won and honestly i thought she did too. but now i see she didnt, i did.

[jehcann]

im not responding, im not stooping to her level. im not stooping to his. i cant wait for her to turn on him, i cant wait. omg this is the greatest thing. honestly. it's gonna kill me that he's being hurt bc i never wouldve hurt him but he chose this it's outta my hands:rolleyes: im not taking him back i am so much better then all of this and tonight truly showed me that im better off. he only screwed his self by leaving me. i cant wait for him to realize it. i a million percent agree with everything you have said. i hope she continues to compare, i hope little by little it eats away at her. i hope she gets everything she deserves, i honestly do. at the end of the day im happy, im free. im already a much stronger person and it's only been 2 weeks i cant wait to see how great i turn out in a few months. im going to continue to work out, lose weight and become a knock out while their miserable together:) good things happen to good people♥ bad people get the bad things. she may think that she won and honestly i thought she did too. but now i see she didnt, i did.

[lost.girl]

Yeah she won a soon to be twice failed relationship. YAY for her lol Didnt work the first time it very unlikely it will the second go around because now they have to work through their feelings of the bf/gf having been with other people. They can kid theirselves that that is not something that will eat away at them but it will and always rears it's ugly head! For instance by adding an ex to facebook hahaha Not proud to admit it but I was once the crazy ex, takes crazy to know crazy so I know her game and it's pathetic and sad.

 

Good for you getting to work on your body!! Ive started a kickboxing class and it's done wonders for my body and for my anger issues with the ex, I beat him up daily lol

[jehcann]

Yeah she won a soon to be twice failed relationship. YAY for her lol Didnt work the first time it very unlikely it will the second go around because now they have to work through their feelings of the bf/gf having been with other people. They can kid theirselves that that is not something that will eat away at them but it will and always rears it's ugly head! For instance by adding an ex to facebook hahaha Not proud to admit it but I was once the crazy ex, takes crazy to know crazy so I know her game and it's pathetic and sad.

 

Good for you getting to work on your body!! Ive started a kickboxing class and it's done wonders for my body and for my anger issues with the ex, I beat him up daily lol

 

it wont work it wasnt gonna work before bc she treats him like **** but now she's comparing us and it's really not gonna work now. it's gonna fail a lot sooner now. once someone views you a certain way you can never change that outcome. his family will never accept her no matter what. that probably hurts her, i know it would me. i couldnt imagine being with a guy and everyone that matters to him believes he's better off with someone else. that would down right kill me. oh their kidding their selves alright to even try to get back in a relationship much less now. it does take crazy to know crazy and im glad you know how crazy is so you can educate me lol i mean it takes a ****ty person to break up an happy couple it takes an even ****ter person to try to keep hurting the same person you just hurt. that just shows how insecure she is. she should be like he left her for me he has to love me. but nope she's insecure and she's comparing us and yeah the only thing we have in common is the fact that we're females, she gave him an std(caught it cheating on him with more then 10 men) and he gave it to me and we were with the same man. their 4 hours away from each other(she moved a few months ago). we're 2 hours away. she's always gonna worry if he's talking to me, bc when i was with her he had went behind my back and talked to her. she's gonna think he's doing it to her. which is gonna suck for her. but i dont play that game im not gonna screw someone over just to get even. im better then that. their relationship is pretty much over lol they need to throw in the towel now.

 

 

but that's wonderful! i would love to do kickboxing that's an amazing work out! good for you!♥ if i have anymore issuses im coming to you, idk how to work this site but imma get in touch with you lol

[lost.girl]

Damn right girl just wait for it! The break up will be soon if she is already nosing through facebook trying to either lay a trap to catch him talking to you or to rub it in your face about how wonderful everything is. If it's so wonderful why she bothering with you? Yeah, pretty clear damn sign trouble in paradise lol

 

Well Im on facebook if you want to add me Im heading to bed now as its crazy o'clock but I always check fb if you want to chat about any new developments

https://www.facebook.com/amandaclineohio

[jehcann]

Damn right girl just wait for it! The break up will be soon if she is already nosing through facebook trying to either lay a trap to catch him talking to you or to rub it in your face about how wonderful everything is. If it's so wonderful why she bothering with you? Yeah, pretty clear damn sign trouble in paradise lol

 

Well Im on facebook if you want to add me Im heading to bed now as its crazy o'clock but I always check fb if you want to chat about any new developments

https://www.facebook.com/amandaclineohio

 

EXACTLY!!! god you are so freaking smart. you're making light bulbs go off every time you reply lol i sent you a friend request!! ♥ but yeah i cant believe it's gotten so late lol i got up in all this talk lol

[Leigh 87]

I wouldn't tolerate it is my ex got a new g/f who added me on fb, what the hell?

 

I would ask her why the hell she added me? She's screwing my ex. I hate her.

 

I mean, it is not rocket science; if your banging some girls ex boyfriend then she will obviously not want to know you...