Fireman_Bob Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 So here is my story... This lady and myself have been "together" for about 3 weeks now. Everything was just perfect! Then came the day, Where she had to pick up some of her things from her ex boyfriends place. When she got back from doing that, She then admits to me that she is confused. I finaly managed to get it out of her as to why she is so confused... She sconfused because when she was at her ex's place collecting her stuff, he said some stuff to her, So now she is choosing between the 2 of us. Never mind the fact that her ex, when they were together, made her hitch hike over 50 kilmetres to go and see him, Kicked her out his house and made her sleep on the street, fortunately a policeman let her sleep at the police station, Oh and to top it off, Her ex told her that they were never together, they were just supposed to be f@#k buddies and its not his fault she got too attached! So can someone PLEASE tell where the sense in that it! Im findint it really hard to keep my cool, when this idiot of an ex, has done what hes done! Yet she has to choose between the two of us! All i ever did was give her my heart, Compassion, Trust.... Im dont have the "Bad Guy" image or atitude, i know im a good guy, and yes, i know... Now days, Woman are into the "Bad Guys"... Ive cried and cried... i tried thinking about it, but a million things go through my mind... I dont know what to do. Do i give her some time to think and decide?
aisuru Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 I'm sorry you're hurting. Three weeks? I would move on and no longer communicate with her. You can do better. 3
smorgenHeckengard Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Yeah, while time doesn't dictate how loving a relationship is, I think you'll be able to move on pretty quickly. I mean no disrespect but it's probably better that she did this now instead of months ahead when you're really invested. Just thank your stars, and move on. You can do better. 2
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