truman4 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 If you dont know my story then i suggest you read the rest of my posts. I have two threads started about my relationship but they are a couple months old. Hello everyone im back again, just to mess my relationships up once again. So here is whats on my mind. My ex of 2 1/2 years and I broke up in the middle of this month. Things were great, actually they were better than the first time around (we broke up in Jan then got back with eachother in mid Feb) but she told me she slept with another guy only two weeks after breaking up with me back in Jan. I told her we can work through this and we did but slowly day by day it ate at me. Everytime i slept with her i pictured her with another man..Everytime i would go to bed i had vivid dreams of catching her with him. So i told her i couldnt take it anymore and ended it. She was hurt and cried i felt horrible i didnt want to just dump her but i couldnt stand being with someone that could do that to me after two years. So here's the catch, a friend of mine came into the picture and we started dating just a day after ending it with my ex (Yes i know it was too soon). I know for a fact me and her clicked. Things went smooth, too smooth. Like driving a BMW after owning a moped. It seems like i have no challenge no worry no effort to be made into this one. The girl is independant and never expects anything from me. Everyone i know finds her more atractive than my ex but i dont. Im starting to miss my ex and i think i gone effed myself up again Loveshack I dont know what to do. Im a bottled up emotional wreck.
aliceinthebox Posted May 30, 2013 Posted May 30, 2013 If you dont know my story then i suggest you read the rest of my posts. I have two threads started about my relationship but they are a couple months old. Hello everyone im back again, just to mess my relationships up once again. So here is whats on my mind. My ex of 2 1/2 years and I broke up in the middle of this month. Things were great, actually they were better than the first time around (we broke up in Jan then got back with eachother in mid Feb) but she told me she slept with another guy only two weeks after breaking up with me back in Jan. I told her we can work through this and we did but slowly day by day it ate at me. Everytime i slept with her i pictured her with another man..Everytime i would go to bed i had vivid dreams of catching her with him. So i told her i couldnt take it anymore and ended it. She was hurt and cried i felt horrible i didnt want to just dump her but i couldnt stand being with someone that could do that to me after two years. So here's the catch, a friend of mine came into the picture and we started dating just a day after ending it with my ex (Yes i know it was too soon). I know for a fact me and her clicked. Things went smooth, too smooth. Like driving a BMW after owning a moped. It seems like i have no challenge no worry no effort to be made into this one. The girl is independant and never expects anything from me. Everyone i know finds her more atractive than my ex but i dont. Im starting to miss my ex and i think i gone effed myself up again Loveshack I dont know what to do. Im a bottled up emotional wreck. You are kind of selfish. Leave her alone. You play yourself as the victim, but you dumped her twice. You dumped her and you want to get angry because she had sex with someone else? Many people have had multiple partners in their lifetime and boohoo you couldn't deal with the fact that your dumping her didn't tear her up as much as you wanted. In all honesty your post pisses me off. I like how you try to pass off your douchebaggery of moving on to the next gal by how beat up you are inside. You are a douchebag. If you are a decent human being leave your ex alone AND the new girl alone so they can find people who really care about them rather than have some self-centered jerk who's life is such a travesty. 1
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