I don't really see how I'm gonna find a girlfriend

[MomsSpaghetti]

Pretty typical situation here: 24-yr-old male, average looking, decent job, big city.

 

I hate to have a defeatist attitude, but when people say stuff like "Just join a club" (By the way, I already am a paying member of a tennis club), I think it's funny because, What are the chances I'll find a club that happens to be related to a hobby of mine and happens to have attractive women in it who just happen to be single and will find me attractive? Lots of unlikely variables there.

[Suave]

While that is true about the club thing, sometimes you get lucky.

 

How much socializing do you do on a daily basis? Does your job require customer service? Do you go out with friends often or rarely? Do you try to initiate conversations with people or let them come to you?

 

You get the point. There are many more variables than what you described, especially for someone with a large group of peers (going by your self-description.) But pretty much every single guy who looks similar to you, has a decent job and is mid-twenties and not in a relationship is probably in the same boat you are.

 

How would you say your conversational skills are? Things like body language, timing, sensitivity, eye contact - this is how you separate yourself from the rest of the pack.