danny8630 Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 my g/f has always wanted to get her boobs done because well, she wasnt happy with her size. I think the time has come where it is actually going to go through. She is visiting the doctor for a consultaion this week. Im a guy and her g/f is getting her boobs done right...im supposed to be happy and excited...wrong. Fake boobs can do incredible things to a girls confidence and self esteem which means i might be forgotten.. Ive talked to her about it seriously one time and then joked about how she wont call me after she gets them done. I think im through for when she gets them. ... can anyone prove me wrong?
Merin Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Originally posted by danny8630 my g/f has always wanted to get her boobs done because well, she wasnt happy with her size. I think the time has come where it is actually going to go through. She is visiting the doctor for a consultaion this week. Im a guy and her g/f is getting her boobs done right...im supposed to be happy and excited...wrong. Fake boobs can do incredible things to a girls confidence and self esteem which means i might be forgotten.. Ive talked to her about it seriously one time and then joked about how she wont call me after she gets them done. I think im through for when she gets them. ... can anyone prove me wrong? Danny, please go back and read what you've written.... "Fake boobs can do incredible things to a girls confidence and self esteem which means i might be forgotten" God Forbid she improve her self esteem and confidence Sorry, but that just sounds very selfish. Why is it that you feel once she has breast augmentation done that she will break up with you? It is sad that you feel IF your girlfriend had more confidence and self esteem she wouldn't be interested in you.. This isn't about YOU. This is about HER and what she chooses to do regardless if you think it's a good decision or a bad decision it is HER decision to make.
SoleMate Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Hunnhhh? Your gf is only with you because she has small t*ts??? Is your relationship really that shallow and partial? I don't get it.
dyermaker Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 You should dump her because her boobs are too big. That'll shatter her self esteem!
Author danny8630 Posted October 4, 2004 Author Posted October 4, 2004 whoa whoa whoa...i didnt say she was with me only because of her size. I also didnt mean to put it as a low self esteem thing. she is self conscious. I just have this basic idea that an augmentation may raise an ego or soemthing. im still unclear about it myself...plus its just an off topic thing that has sat in the back of my mind for a couple days. its not a big deal, thanks for your responses.
Amethyst Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Originally posted by danny8630 whoa whoa whoa...i didnt say she was with me only because of her size. I also didnt mean to put it as a low self esteem thing. she is self conscious. You didn't *say* it, but you *implied* it with this statement: Fake boobs can do incredible things to a girls confidence and self esteem which means i might be forgotten. Sounds like you are saying if she gets bigger breasts, she'll likely break up with you. The only way that could be true is if (a) she's with you only because she has small breasts or (b) she's with you only because she has low self-esteem. I also think you have a self-defeating attitude. You seem to think the relationship is *already* over: I think im through for when she gets them. ... can anyone prove me wrong? As long as you think the surgery will end it all, it will. I understanding fleeting insecurity; but, you have to realize that's all it should be. Unless your relationship is *really* shallow (in which case, breaking up would *not* be a bad thing), your girlfriend's breast augmentation will not change a thing.
faux Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 If my girlfriend were to seriously consider breast implants, I would worry for her health. I would worry about her financial situation, how well she would recover from surgery, and if anything might go wrong during or after the surgery. I would not forget that my girlfriend is with me for good reasons, and bigger boobs would not change those reasons.
Merin Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 Originally posted by faux If my girlfriend were to seriously consider breast implants, I would worry for her health. I would worry about her financial situation, how well she would recover from surgery, and if anything might go wrong during or after the surgery. I would not forget that my girlfriend is with me for good reasons, and bigger boobs would not change those reasons. See, now that seems sincere... That you would have concerns for her health and how it may effect her. Nice...
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