kevaliz Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Hello everyone So you could say I have a little problem. I am not entirelly sure what to do. I will tell you the story I went to the sports shop to buy myself basketball snickers. It's a small shop, barely any people visit it. 2 people work there, some old guy and this cute girl. So I enter the store and start searching for shoes. Then the girl comes over to me and asks me if I need any help. Of course I said yes because I found her very attractive. We casually talked and she helped me pick my shoes. I wanted to ask for her name or atleast ask her out, but I didn't because that old guy was always near us and I thought it would be awkward asking in front of him. So I just said goodbye, payed for the shoes and left. It's been 4 days since than and I can't get the girl out of my head. I want to just go over there and ask her out, but I don't want it to appear like i'm following her around. Like i'm some kind of stalker. I don't know much about her, not even who her friends are or where she goes out so I could "accidently" meet her there. I only know where she works. What do you guys think I should do? Go to the store and ask her out?
BeholdtheMan Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I went to the sports shop to buy myself basketball snickers.Snickers are chocolate bars. Sneakers are shoes. What do you guys think I should do? Go to the store and ask her out?I think you should try to meet girls outside the sneaker store. It's easier. It's been 4 days and she's likely forgotten about you. ...but to answer your question, if you're really that attracted to her, why not? Shoot for the moon. He who dares wins.
pcplod Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Keep going back and buying sneakers. She's bound to get the message. Only trouble is that she may well regard you as both weird and obsessive, with a fetish for sneakers. 1
kassy Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Let's be real, if you ask her out it is unlikely she will say yes. Might have a boyfriend or a host of reasons that have nothing to do with you, and then there is she might not like you. But you don't know her, don't have any overlapping social circles... If she says no... Who cares? Who even knows? And she might... Say yes. So negative: likely to say no, little wounded pride, need to find new place to buy sneakers Positive : might say yes, it was basically no time or effort to find this out, you don't even know her getting over her if she says no will take about 5 minutes Why not go in, buy some socks or something and have a quick chat and then ask her out for coffee. Just do it.
BruinFan95 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Just go back into her place of work and let her know you haven't been able to get her out of your head. Ask her out for a drink. If you don't go there often you won't have to see her again. She will be flattered by that, as any women would and is likely to either say yes or let you down easily. You aren't a creep so she wouldn't be rude to you. If she happens to be bitchy then it makes it a lot easier to hate her. Best of luck, I know it can be nerve wrecking but focus on the positives if you succeed and not the negative. Focusing on the chance of failing will only hurt you. Half full, not half empty
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