Notorious Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Quick background, broke up with my ex a few months ago, was devestated, couldn't eat, sleep, blah blah blah. You all know the routine. The past week I've started to feel like I just don't give a crap anymore. She even came to my house the other day after a month of no contact. Said she "wanted to see me". We hung out for about an hour, and she left. And I felt nothing. Nada. So for everyone out there dealing with a broken heart, trust me, it goes away. You just have to get over the initial devestation and concentrate on yourself. I know it's easier said than done. Believe me, I know. But it DOES go away, no matter how horrible you feel. Good luck to all of you who are dealing with it.
UCFKevin Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 It comes when you least expect it. One day it's just like, "Hey...I don't hate being alive anymore!" Great feeling, no?
DayumQuitPlayin Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Hmm.. yea.. it does take time to get over someone.. it depends on the person. The longer you've been with someone.. the longer it takes to get over it.. also how deep in love you are in with that person. This is my suggestion...for those who don't know how to 'move on'. First, it always help to have a friend to talk to..whenever you have to vent out some frustration, sadness, etc... Second, start seeing other people. Believe me.. this helps out alot. If you see other people.. form some sort of bond, friendship, relationship, it helps you get your mind off your previous relationship. If you both hit it off... you'll find yourself thinking less of the other person. And last.... its Closure... this doesn't apply to everyone. After having someone else, whether a friend at first, boy/girlfriend.. whatever.. if you still talk to your previous boy/girlfriend.. have one last discussion. If he/she still feels that he/she no longer wants to be with you.. succ it up.. and Move on to bigger better things... hopefully what you have.. if you followed the first 2 steps :-p~ Good Lucc Everyone.. PS> I'm no psychologist.. I'm just another face in da Crowd :-) PPS> Please.. this is no Guarantee.. so Please.. no Hate Letters ...Thank You LoL :-p~
thunder23 Posted October 4, 2004 Posted October 4, 2004 Great advice! I'm not sure where my relationship is going w/ my ex, but i would like to get the closure if we're done. I think i got a little yesterday, she gave me all my clothes back she had, as i gave her a birthday present.
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