Jord11 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 having a pretty tough night, haven't felt like this in awhile ugh, I do miss her still sometimes, so tough
shawngee Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I feel your pain. It has been roughly the same time for me. You go forward, then slide back, but I am told it gets better. 1
ConfusedT Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 It really does go up and down. Bad days, good days, hard days. If you really put your everything into the relationship, just realize you tried your hardest and there was nothing you could do for the situation. If you didn't try your hardest or if you were the one that screwed up, learn from this and make sure to not repeat the same mistake twice!! 1
BustedUpInside Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Missing somebody you had a special connection with just shows that you are a caring human being. Give yourself some credit! You haven't felt like this "in awhile" which means that you have obviously come a long way since the breakup if the bad days are few and far between. Keep up the good work, and remember that even the strongest person is going to have a bad day every so often 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 72 days here and I feel like it is absolutely worse than the beginning. All week, my thoughts of her, the RS and the BU consumed me. I just want to let go... Well, on to the next 72 days, I guess. Anyway, OP, I feel ya. It hurts. It sucks. I don't like it!!! 1
bluecrabroll Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I'm somewhere around 90 days as well. Been keeping extremely busy lately but am left with the future thoughts all the time which brings her constantly into the picture. Hope it'll all get better soon. Hang in there
1908 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 It's a definite roller-coaster. I'm only on two weeks myself. Weekends are toughest I find. My mind wanders too much during them. What she's doing probably isn't nearly as exciting as my mind makes it out to be. Has she contacted you at all in the 97 days?
suladas Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 It's a bad sign if you're still counting. I just tried to think how many days i'm at, and really had to think hard. I think it's about 3 months now could be 4 though? I never think about it and it means nothing. The day when you're free from their hold and go on with your life is the important day. The days of counting are pretty much counting the days you're wasting from your life being miserable missing them.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 It's a bad sign if you're still counting. I just tried to think how many days i'm at, and really had to think hard. I think it's about 3 months now could be 4 though? I never think about it and it means nothing. The day when you're free from their hold and go on with your life is the important day. The days of counting are pretty much counting the days you're wasting from your life being miserable missing them. Well, mine is easy becuase my last day of contact was St. Paddy's Day. Kind of hard to forget
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