spiderowl Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 If a married man goes looking on a dating site, what is he really looking for? I'm curious as to what goes on in a guy's head when he does this. Are there any married men on here who have searched and made contact on such sites? What were you really looking for?
Author spiderowl Posted May 28, 2013 Author Posted May 28, 2013 They are looking for sex on the side. Only on the side? Nothing more? Only reason I ask is that's not what they usually say they are looking for. If that's the motivation, why are they looking for sex on the side? Have they lost interest in their wives? Have their wives lost interest in them? Do they just want variety? What's the reason?
SmileFace Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 As long as you aren't trying to be that reason. What does it matter? 1
dreamingoftigers Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Only on the side? Nothing more? Only reason I ask is that's not what they usually say they are looking for. If that's the motivation, why are they looking for sex on the side? Have they lost interest in their wives? Have their wives lost interest in them? Do they just want variety? What's the reason? You'd be surprised what I heard on the news the other day. Married men lie to get sex on the side! Who knew? What's the reason? They have few morals and are lacking in respect and empathy. 4
shexy Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I would guess all they want is some no strings attached sex.
apple OR orange Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 you have to be abit carful here, most who are married arnt getting sex as there other half seem its ok to withhold it, so they dont want to leave but still want sex. OR its breaking down as the women decide to live how they want to live and its ok to keep dragging him along with no sex, and blackmail to make sure he doesnt get any fun.
runningfar Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Sex on the side or an ego boost and they won't meet. Though they'll probably cross the physical line in the future too. There is no good reason to cheat so I'm not sure it matters what they say they're looking for... Could Shakespeare himself spin that one into something more romantic? So - I want to stay married to this woman and live with her and offer her everything of substance, but yeah, I'd like to have sex with you until you get too needy. I mean, on a dating site is even worse than if they met in person, they're actively seeking a chance to betray. It didn't just fall into their lap and start grinding. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 you have to be abit carful here, most who are married arnt getting sex as there other half seem its ok to withhold it, so they dont want to leave but still want sex. OR its breaking down as the women decide to live how they want to live and its ok to keep dragging him along with no sex, and blackmail to make sure he doesnt get any fun. hmmm I wonder what my husband's excuse is considering he's the one wearing the chastity belt. hmmmm Maybe it isn't universally the woman's fault. What a concept!
xxoo Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Because they are horny and want a new thrill. A married person posting on a dating site is reckless. They aren't thinking with their brains. They are acting like horny teenagers, taking unwise risks. 2
Emilia Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Only on the side? Nothing more? Only reason I ask is that's not what they usually say they are looking for. If that's the motivation, why are they looking for sex on the side? Have they lost interest in their wives? Have their wives lost interest in them? Do they just want variety? What's the reason? You would be surprised how many people are incapable of (or don't want to) see the other person's point of view: they will cheat on their wives and they will dupe their bit on the side. If you confronted them, you would get the 'but my wife doesn't understand me' line as you do with some guys who are in steady relationships but don't mind to f*ck around. They justify the motives in their mind. 2
Revolver Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 You'd be surprised at how many married men have active profiles on these sites. Some are looking for sex on the side and some are trying to find a GF so when the eventual divrorce goes down he doesn't run the risk of going through a dry spell 1
PutARingOnIt Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 They are only looking for sex. Maybe the wife isn't giving them any or the sex at home is boring.
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