irc333 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Red Robin's post inspired me to post this one....I wonder, if you enter into a FWB situation, is there some kind of obligation to one another to not have sex with ANYONE else, while you're doing it with each other for health purposes?
BluEyeL Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 There is no obligation, unless exclusivity is discussed, and then I'm not sure that's a FWB anymore.
edgygirl Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 No. On the contrary. It is assumed that you are free to be seeing other people. Which obviously makes real safe sex quite hard to achieve.
phineas Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 I've dated women exclusively but it was considered "having fun" we hung out, went out, she was with me, I was with her ect. But we weren't serious or going to get serious. People fresh off a divorce or separated do these. It's better than being alone. Of course, they don't last long and there are no expectations of how long it'll last either. You just go with the flow.
runningfar Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 Red Robin's post inspired me to post this one....I wonder, if you enter into a FWB situation, is there some kind of obligation to one another to not have sex with ANYONE else, while you're doing it with each other for health purposes? To me it means you can date and pursue but if you have sex with somebody else you have to tell the other person before you have sex again. Fwb might mean sexually exclusive but not emotionally and end when serious pursuit (vs casual) begins elsewhere
HonestNeurotic Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 FWB in my past meant that we were exclusive unless we met someone. Then we told each other, and remained friends with no sex. Pretty simple. And ALWAYS safe sex! My brother died from AIDS.
hestheone66 Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 no kissing. no sleeping over. infrequent. respectful of each others boundaries. sex health screening upfront..if another prospect comes along you are free to pursue without disclosure...you can either practice safe sex or better have sex health screen for new person..if ppl too mature to negotiate these elements they are not mature enough to handle the responsibility of fwb
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