mammasita Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I slept with my ex last night..... I feel like Ive been dumped all over again. I wanted to believe that he was sincere SO SO SO SO SOOOOOOO bad. I was doing so well and now I'm a mess again. I never should have gone to the BBQ.
aisuru Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Oh dear. I'm sorry. Do you guys want to be together again? I apologize as I don't know your story....
Cutiepie1976 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 You're human. You made a mistake. Forgive yourself. Figure out how to prevent it from happening again. Learn. Move on. You'll survive. You'll continue healing. You just took several steps back in the recovery process. Get back into recovery mode and NC, and stop beating yourself up. You feel badly enough as it is without the added self-flagellation. Chin up. Onwards and upwards! 1
Author mammasita Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 I know he's not worth this pain..... Thank you both for responding. This is hard. 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I know he's not worth this pain..... Thank you both for responding. This is hard. HEY!!! Remember that person you thought you couldn't live without? Well, look at you, living and "Schytt".... God, that is such a good line.... Wish I could remember where i read it...... 1
Author mammasita Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 HEY!!! Remember that person you thought you couldn't live without? Well, look at you, living and "Schytt".... God, that is such a good line.... Wish I could remember where i read it...... Ugh....I know, point taken. He is SO not worth my tears.
aisuru Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 There's nowhere else to go but up from here. I'm sorry.
Cutiepie1976 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Ugh....I know, point taken. He is SO not worth my tears. It happens. Breakups are hard. Just when you think you've moved on, you have a setback. It will get better.
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