new_jack_E Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I attended a long time lady friend's 50th BD party this weekend (she's married). My friend and I have a great relationship, and frequently discuss business matters since we do the same kind of work, and also relationship stuff, since she's always been a support for me through the years, in my dealing with a difficult divorce, the relationship I had right after my divorce (which is now over), and "dating" type things. I look to her for a woman's perspective on things often. She has offered to introduce me to her single friends. Besides the fact we're long time friends, she wanted me at the party because I am "fun", and this was a band/show at a club, and my friend and all her girlfriends like to dance. Some of there BF's and husbands don't, etc. So, I met one of her single friends who came who I REALLY liked. We danced and had fun all night. My friend had told me earlier in the evening that she was single but was "dating" someone. Well, in a short amount of time, we (me and my friend's friend) found out we have a lot in common. Both divorced after 25 yrs married, had cheating spouses, have similar kid issues, have our common friend of many years, etc. A lot of "I really like you's", "you're such a great guy", and "I'm having so much fun" type comments exchanged between both us us. At one point I took her outside the very loud club and talked with her for about 30 minutes on the patio. She asked me a lot of questions, wanted to know why I got divorced. We had both had some drinks, but almost from our first dance, we had our eyes locked on each other, pretty much had our hands all over each other all night while dancing, etc. At one point I kissed her neck on the dance floor and she really liked it and started rubbing my chest etc. Exciting! I told her I really liked her but said "we're different though because I am available, and you aren't". At the end of the night I sort of lamely asked how I could get a hold of her, and fumbled for a business card. Then I said, "hey, never mind, you're with somebody right now and I don't want to cause any problems with that, and you know how to get a hold of me if you want" (through our mutual friend.) She, smiled and said yes. The next day I texted my friend a picture of me and her friend together from the night before and said essentially "your friend is hot, wish she was available". My friend said "cute picture! I'll let me know if anything changes". I feel like want to contact this lady and see if there is anything there. I'm wondering why her BF was not there that night, and I sensed something might be going wrong with their situation. But I don't want to piss off my long time friend. So I'm wondering what to do. I do know how to get a hold of her at her work, and I thought about trying to connect with on on LinkedIn, and see what happens or if she emails me back. I don't know. I kind of hate doing absolutely nothing. I really liked her; wonderful, sexy, smart, fun. Thoughts?
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