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hi, there's a girl i've been seeing for weeks now, she recently came to my own place (first time), we watched a game together, shared jokes and stories, there was a lot of touching but no kissing, no real intimate contact, so i don't know if she's ready for a relationship or just wants to be friends ?! any help

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Got any more info? How many times have you hung out with this girl during the weeks of seeing each other? Are there texts/conversations between dates that give you a clue to how she's feeling? What's your gut telling you?

 

Perhaps being the first time at your place, she didn't want to get intimate and didn't want anything to even start so she avoided intimate contact... just a wild guess tho really.

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well we hang out three times with texting and conversations in between, so i guess she wants to engage in a relationship

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hi, there's a girl i've been seeing for weeks now, she recently came to my own place (first time), we watched a game together, shared jokes and stories, there was a lot of touching but no kissing, no real intimate contact, so i don't know if she's ready for a relationship or just wants to be friends ?! any help

 

Did you initiate intimate contact? Did you try to kiss her? Most times a woman will not initiate intimacy, and leaves it to the man to make the first move.

 

Also, how would you know if she wants a relationship without asking her?

 

Make a move next time and see how she responds.

 

Ask her when you are ready if she wants to be more than friends.

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I tried indeed and she reacted negatively.

asking is unecessary i think since she came to my place knowing we will be alone; there is place for some initimacy obviously

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