Helena21 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 We're not friends, in case you're wondering...we're nothing. I've told him I have feelings for him, he claims he doesn't like me back, and still we talk all day on the phone, chat etc..all day or all night til the sun comes up. Doesn't seem normal at all, does it? He's also trying to make me jealous about other women all the time. But he's not being discrete at all...he clearly does it because he knows I'm jealous and he seems to enjoy that. What are your opinions?
Maleficent Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Kick his ass to the curb and find someone who won't treat you like a pile of crap?
Author Helena21 Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 I know...he's not worth it...I would just like to know out of curiosity...cause it's just so weird..i've never heard anything like it...you don't spend so much time with someone you're not interested in, it's just crazy.. :/
BluEyeL Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Stop talking to him, and if he's actually interested he'll ask you out and admit that he is interested. Otherwise, he just likes talking on the phone.
Adele0908 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 We're not friends, in case you're wondering...we're nothing. I've told him I have feelings for him, he claims he doesn't like me back, and still we talk all day on the phone, chat etc..all day or all night til the sun comes up. Doesn't seem normal at all, does it? He's also trying to make me jealous about other women all the time. But he's not being discrete at all...he clearly does it because he knows I'm jealous and he seems to enjoy that. What are your opinions? If he said he doesn't like you, and you still like him, it's best to stop having these long conversations on the phone all day. Do you really want to know how he probably sees you right now? As his puppy dog. Or his mommy. Not a good look, and I'm sure you know that you deserve respect. With most guys you have to crack the lady whip from time to time to get respect. Think of him as a 2 year old boy who is testing his mommy to see what he can get away with. Treat him as you would treat a 2 year old boy who needs to learn boundaries. If you do this you will see an immediate change in him, and I'm speaking from personal experience.
apple OR orange Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Ive seen this before, i would question if hes actually got tese women on the side, although its an ego boost, its the same the other way around when women tell me about a guy shes seeing at the weekend, then he goes all out to get her to go out with him. He likes knowing you like him and feels that when you arnt happy when he tells you about other women he may (or may not) be wanting to see.
Jane2011 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I agree with the others. Do not put up with his b.s. You deserve a guy who wants you.
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