na49 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Alright, so the girlfriend came over today to hang out. She had to get on my computer to check some things and wanted to surprise me by changing my computer background to a picture of us. Well, as she was doing that she saw pictures that I had saved of SI models in their swimsuits from a few months ago. I never pleasured myself to them or anything, I had them saved though. She told me she thought that I wanted them over her, and that she didn't feel appreciated because I had pictures of other girls on my computer. I deleted them because honestly I didn't need them anyway. I did feel like a real jerk though. Was I out of bounds with this one? or was it a bit of an overreaction on her part? I know how serious some people are about things like this so I'm happy she didn't leave me over it. After a while she was over it. but me being the over-thinker that I am haven't let it go yet. I still feel "guilty" over it.
AsonUnique Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 If SI swimsuit pics is the worst of your porn stash, you have one of man's most innocent "secrets" in history. Overreaction on her part. 4
jeni45667 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Imagine what she would do if she found out you watch porn? I used to date this great guy and we had a great relationship, because I don't give him a hard time when he watches porn. Most women need to understand watching pictures/videos of hot women and cheating are completely different things. It's really not a big deal. 3
Author na49 Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 Well sometimes I gotta relieve myself when she's not around. It's not like I want to have sex with any of the girls in porn or anything. The only person I want to have sex with is my girlfriend. I told her this and I think she got it. She dropped it already, but I'm still going over it in my head.
2sunny Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 She was snooping into your personal space. Then got mad when she saw something that she should expect. I think she was wrong for snooping and has boundary issues. It's private. You have a right to look at what you want. Tell her to take a hike if she intends to be such a prude and that controlling and insecure.
Adele0908 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Complete over-reaction on her part. How unrealistic of her to think that you as a man are not visually stimulated by sexy pictures of women. I have dated guys with large porn collections and calendars and posters of sexy models all over their bedroom. It never bothered me, I am confident as a woman. You did nothing wrong and you should not feel bad. It was very nice of you to delete the pictures when asked. 2
Author na49 Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 I figured it was an overreaction on her part. Plus, it was just freaking SI swimsuit models. I could understand an overreaction from her if it was a bunch of porn, but that's not what it was. Plus, it's not like she doesn't think all of those guys that girls in their 20's are drooling over nowadays are attractive. It doesn't make me feel "unimportant". It makes me feel like I'm dating a normal college girl, who finds some of those hot shot celebrities attractive. She's allowed to think other guys are attractive, she's just not allowed to go screw other guys she thinks are attractive.
crederer Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I've never had a girl care if I looked at porn, let alone pictures of swimsuit models. Jeeze... What, she doesn't ever look at male models? If she says no, she's a liar.
Missunder Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Overreaction, She was using changing your background as an excuse to snoop and overreacted at the first things she could find. Shut it down or it will only get worse over the years, i have a friend whose wife puts passwords on the computer so he cant get on because she doesnt trust him with porn. He is only allowed to get on when she is there and can only play for a limited amount of time. Dont get whipped.
Maleficent Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Alright, so the girlfriend came over today to hang out. She had to get on my computer to check some things and wanted to surprise me by changing my computer background to a picture of us. Well, as she was doing that she saw pictures that I had saved of SI models in their swimsuits from a few months ago. I never pleasured myself to them or anything, I had them saved though. She told me she thought that I wanted them over her, and that she didn't feel appreciated because I had pictures of other girls on my computer. I deleted them because honestly I didn't need them anyway. I did feel like a real jerk though. Was I out of bounds with this one? or was it a bit of an overreaction on her part? I know how serious some people are about things like this so I'm happy she didn't leave me over it. After a while she was over it. but me being the over-thinker that I am haven't let it go yet. I still feel "guilty" over it. Well it's up to you but be sure you remember this the next time she swoons over Ryan Gosling or Gerard Butler or any other hot male celebrity for that matter...
MidwestUSA Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 I need your address. I have some swimsuit issues of SI for you. You can have my Victoria's Secret catalogs too! Total overreaction on her part. Carry on. 1
MrWonderful Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Alright, so the girlfriend came over today to hang out. She had to get on my computer to check some things and wanted to surprise me by changing my computer background to a picture of us. Well, as she was doing that she saw pictures that I had saved of SI models in their swimsuits from a few months ago. I never pleasured myself to them or anything, I had them saved though. She told me she thought that I wanted them over her, and that she didn't feel appreciated because I had pictures of other girls on my computer. I deleted them because honestly I didn't need them anyway. I did feel like a real jerk though. Was I out of bounds with this one? or was it a bit of an overreaction on her part? I know how serious some people are about things like this so I'm happy she didn't leave me over it. After a while she was over it. but me being the over-thinker that I am haven't let it go yet. I still feel "guilty" over it. Definitely a cry for attention. She just wants you to tell her shes more beautiful then those swimsuit models. Don't sweat it, she over reacted. Its okay to have pictures of models... Shoulda said its better than finding my porn stash... oops
FitChick Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 Is she overweight or otherwise unattractive? Too bad!
apple OR orange Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 some women are kinda tied up about this sort of thing....... i remember someone said if a guy isnt looking at other women in the street then he looses his "manliness" so to speak, the fact he then chooses to be with one person would be treated as better than the ones he looks at. what do i know, i'm single so i am sure the above works somehow.
shexy Posted May 28, 2013 Posted May 28, 2013 It sounds like she overreacted a bit....I can't understand it when people get jealous when their significant other crushes on movie stars or models or something. If you had naked pix of an ex on your computer, that might be a different story.
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