dchin1985 Posted May 27, 2013 Posted May 27, 2013 (edited) This is about a breakup from a 3 years relationship 6mths ago, and my ex's friend asked if i would consider her back. Why do girls always make the decision which they will regret later or just doesn't know what they got until they have lost it? I am fled up with dating to be honest, so much heartache, problems and issues. I don't even know if it is my problem that i am too flexible on living on my own principles or if it is their issue?! Well the story goes like this. Basically my ex got GIGS. I treated her extremely well all 3 years and would throw myself for her whenever she needs, because we were at a stage we planned to get married. But for whatever the real reason is, we broke up, and I realized i didn't feel appreciated of what i offered. And moved on and dating other ppl. I met up with a friend yesterday (she is also a mutual friend), and she told me that my ex is now sort of going out with someone, all her friends don't agree with him and hated him. My ex feels stressed, heartache and not trusting towards this guy. Also she is taking short cut in her life (i.e. going out with someone wealthy so she doesn't have to work hard for it...) and bla bla bla. Well when i was hearing this, i felt a little bit upset but I quickly realized I am in a much happier position now. So i was thinking, why would my friends tell me this.. then next she asks me if I would consider my ex back. They also said maybe she realized she really cares about me. But I replied: No! Definitely No, No need to think twice! I realized there are so many girls who actually care and appreciate me. Anyway I wish her all the best. Seriously, tell me why? Why gals make things so complicated to themselves? Why can't gals just appreciate what they have? Then only to find out that, no it isn't all that good out there, and run back. I have moved on with my life, and hack no i would not waste my time on someone who didn't appreciate me at first place. And i am dating another gal, who doesn't seem to be able to make up her mind. I am not an option, i think i better stand strong and firm on my principles. Do gals honestly think they have the right to treat people like this? Please help, tell me how should i stick to my own principle more firmly Edited May 27, 2013 by dchin1985
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