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I dated a girl from work and we went out for 4 months. She ended it, saying that she is just not looking for anything serious right now, where I was looking to move forward.

 

We still work together and it is kinda hard to avoid her, but I did for a couple days and she was pissed. Anyways, I proposed a friends with benefits relationship and she was onboard, until I text her one night. She said it made her feel cheap and didnt think it was a good idea anymore.

 

We have been in limited contact, trying to be friends. She tells me that she still wants to hang out with me so I asked her to clarify what she meant. She said she would tell me, but has blown me off a few times since then... tonight being no different. I im kinda in the dark and dont know what kind of relationship she wants.

 

I don't really want to get back together with her and the way she is treating me, I don't think she wants to either. But I do want to know what she wants out of me. I guess it is frustrating more than anything and I don't know if I should just tell her to forget everything and not even try to stay friends.

 

Sorry if that was confusing.. Any suggestions?

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Don't propose a FWB situation with somebody you dated. That's my advice.

 

Especially one you worked with.

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