noneive Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Dating a guy for the 3rd time (ridiculous I know). Everytime we broke up, he freaked out because of some insecurity of his own and became depressed and left. I was done with him for 6 months and would not respond to anything he sent me, until he came to me telling me he had changed for the better (therapy, doing better in school, etc). We've been great for 4 months now until last week. He started acting distant because of stress and started pulling away and sometimes snapping at me. Coupled with my stress, I got into a fight with him Thursday night and told him he wasn't able to help me when I'm upset. I overreacted and said I wouldn't come to him with my problems because it just made me feel bad (he would say things like "well, you shouldn't feel that way"). I took that back later and apologized for overreacting. He was really upset and anxious so left for the night to be alone (which is the first time he's ever done that). He said we would be fine but he was afraid we'd have another fight like this. He said he would see me Friday. Friday, we texted a few times but he had work all day and said he was sorry but too tired to see me. Yesterday, he texted first asking what I was up to and I continued casual conversation until I asked how he was feeling. He said he was in a bad mood because it was just one of those days. Then he asked me to leave him alone and "just give him some space right now". However, I haven't heard from him at all today. Since he's broken up with me so many times, I'm incredibly worried. Should I be? He is being more communicative than he used to be but I'm upset that he won't talk to me. We love each other but I don't know how long I should leave him alone or if he will suddenly break up with me like he has done before. What do you guys think? Is his pulling away normal or does it mean he's not able to work through 1 fight?
MrRightNow Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 He's way too much of a drama queen for a guy. I'd dump him and move on if I were you. 1
Author noneive Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 Haha! That's my main complaint. It doesn't happen often though. He doesn't do it to hurt me but it sure does hurt.
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