Chrisal23 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Hello, Today is my third day of NC and I feel horrible. I wonder how she can go on and about after all we've been through. It is a weird scenario but me and my ex broke up about a year ago, and I went NC for a month after she broke up with me back then. Then I texted her and from then on we chilled and kissed , hold hands and did basically everything we did as we went out. It was great and of course I wanted to ask her out but I wanted us to clarify things. I made the mistake of thinking I had all the time in the world. About a week ago we go into a argument and after 4 days she tells me she needs "space." I felt bad and told her why and she said that she wanted to have time for herself. That she didn't want to be with me and didn't care about anything. I responded with questions and confusion. How did this happen overnight? We went out for 3 years. The last time I saw her was Thursday and when she looked at me in the eye and didn't want to kiss me I felt horrible. Since then I haven't contacted her. She gave me excuses saying I deserve someone who loves me the same way I love them and that why I wanted to be with her if she didn't feel the same way. I feel angry, frustrated and extremely lonely.Normally I would chill with her on the weekends and today. Now I'm stuck alone tormenting myself more wondering why this happened, and trying to convince myself that we will never go back together.
CelticGibson Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Tough place to be, I can tell you. Something you have to let sink in is that you cannot force anything to happen with her. She has to be the one who wants it or not. All you can do is walk away and start to heal. Yes it's tough, believe me I know how it feels especially when every fibre in your body is telling you that you should still be together, that you have to do the opposite and stay away to regroup. When she uttered the words "You deserve someone who loves you", this meant that she has checked out completely and that unless she has a major change of heart, it's over. You have to look at the facts and not let yourself over-think what's not there. Stay strong, you will get through this. It's only a matter of time now... 1
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