How can we keep an emotional and sexual connection in a LDR?

[Aicha]

so i wont be seeing kmy SO for at least 2 months

 

and we wont be able to skype much as i work days and he works nights.

 

we text each other and have time for a catch up over the phone every 3 days.

 

can anyone share any ideas on how to keep an emotional and sexual connection in a LDR??

[umirano]

Sexting, skype sex as for sexuality. Emotions? Create them by what you say and how you say it. It's very complex. I know. Too much vs. too little. Too sweet vs too dry, etc. My ex recorded herself dancing for me. Use your imagination. Think of what you'd do in a local RS and try to translate this into an LD context.

 

Good luck!

[NeverADullMoment]

so i wont be seeing kmy SO for at least 2 months

 

and we wont be able to skype much as i work days and he works nights.

 

we text each other and have time for a catch up over the phone every 3 days.

 

can anyone share any ideas on how to keep an emotional and sexual connection in a LDR??

 

Hand written letters are awesome and kind of a forgotten art. They feel more personal than text messages and you can really pour yourself in to a letter. Also send cards, poems, song lyrics, etc. Take some sexy photos and mail those to him and ask him to do the same. Skype sex when you can and on the phone make sure you flirt and sometimes a little dirty talk too just to keep things exciting. Two months will go by before you know it!

[Aicha]

Yes i used to be a dancer before we met. i should send him a video then, he would be suprised for sure.

 

also, any ideas for sexy pics? something especially for him? i am thinking maybe his name on my naked body? any other ideas?

[NeverADullMoment]

Yes i used to be a dancer before we met. i should send him a video then, he would be suprised for sure.

 

also, any ideas for sexy pics? something especially for him? i am thinking maybe his name on my naked body? any other ideas?

 

Do a Google search on boudoir photography and you'll get some great ideas. I put together a Shutterfly book for my man one Valentine's Day and he was literally speechless when he got it.

[Aicha]

thanks will do

what is a shutterfly book?

[NeverADullMoment]

thanks will do

what is a shutterfly book?

 

You upload photos and they print it into a nice, glossy book. It's relatively inexpensive and totally awesome! I put in little quotes, song lyrics, poems, etc on some of the pages too. Just google shutterfly. It's easy to use but takes some time if you want to be really creative (like me!)

[Aicha]

that sounds great. did you send pics of yourself? or pics with your SO?

 

(i don't have pics with my SO)

[NeverADullMoment]

that sounds great. did you send pics of yourself? or pics with your SO?

 

(i don't have pics with my SO)

 

 

Just pics of myself. They were sexy but tasteful. I took some with just a bra, panties and stockings but wearing one of my favorite shirts of his....one with his lifeguard shirt on but it was wet and see through....in other words not totally naked or raunchy but definitely sexy and personalized.