Unfriending someone who rejected you ?

[eternal.denied84]

Hi,

 

There is this girl whom I was talking to for some time. We were thinking of dating each other but she didnt seem as much interested in me as I was in her and slowly this insecurity beefed up and She lost interest in me. Instead of asking her out for an explanation, I decided to leave like a man and so we stopped talking.

 

She is on my fb and recently I have found that she has put me in some kind of restricted list. I wonder why didn't she just delete me ?

 

Now the problem is, I seem to be getting obsessed with her profile and keep stalking her page which is affecting me.

 

1. Should I go ahead block her ?

2. Should I just unfriend her ?

3. Should I send her a message asking what's the point keeping me in restricted list if you don't want me to be your friend ?

 

OR

 

4. Should I just ignore.

 

I am afraid that doing any of 1, 2 and 3 above would show that I am immature and weak. Also, it would put an end to any further probability of her coming back to me?

 

On another hand, I think that If I do not do any of 1,2 or 3 above and choose to go with 4. I will always keep dreaming about her and waste my precious time.

 

Any advice ?

[sweetheart5381]

Hi,

 

There is this girl whom I was talking to for some time. We were thinking of dating each other but she didnt seem as much interested in me as I was in her and slowly this insecurity beefed up and She lost interest in me. Instead of asking her out for an explanation, I decided to leave like a man and so we stopped talking.

 

She is on my fb and recently I have found that she has put me in some kind of restricted list. I wonder why didn't she just delete me ?

 

Now the problem is, I seem to be getting obsessed with her profile and keep stalking her page which is affecting me.

 

1. Should I go ahead block her ?

2. Should I just unfriend her ?

3. Should I send her a message asking what's the point keeping me in restricted list if you don't want me to be your friend ?

 

OR

 

4. Should I just ignore.

 

I am afraid that doing any of 1, 2 and 3 above would show that I am immature and weak. Also, it would put an end to any further probability of her coming back to me?

 

On another hand, I think that If I do not do any of 1,2 or 3 above and choose to go with 4. I will always keep dreaming about her and waste my precious time.

 

Any advice ?

 

My advice is to deactivate your FB for awhile and enjoy the weather, your friends, other sites, etc. FB is seriously addictive and can cause more harm than any good.

 

You don't have to delete the account, just deactivate and find something else to do. It's sorta like being grounded by your parents (you are the parent in this case). When one source of entertainment is cut-off, find another.

[JuneJulySeptember]

Just unfriend her. Nobody cares. And she doesn't care. That's for sure.

 

Move on and away from her as soon as possible.

[GB25]

you really think that if she truly wanted to be with you that fact that you " unfriended" her would be a deal breaker???

 

Get real..if she wants you she will make it known..the fact that you unfriend or block has nothing to do with anything..