funwife2share Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 (edited) My husband and I have been talking about a threeway for sometime now. I am sort of excited about this, this was his idea initially. I want to do this as much as he does, but, wondering about any consequences afterwards. Is this a good idea, or, not? Edited May 26, 2013 by funwife2share
LittleTiger Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 From what I've read on LS over the years, the 'consequences' are the breakdown of your marriage and ultimately divorce. So, no, it's not a good idea. 1
therhythm Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 My husband and I have been talking about a threeway for sometime now. I am sort of excited about this, this was his idea initially. I want to do this as much as he does, but, wondering about any consequences afterwards. Is this a good idea, or, not? Dear funwife2share, you need to understand that there are many people who are able to live their sexual life totally separated from their love relationship. I have participated in many threesomes MFM and often the couples were strong, caring and loving and the threesomes were some spice to add to their for the rest very healthy relationship, but in some cases for the husband (in my case the threesomes with married people were always MFM) the reality of seeing his wife being pleasured by another man was not really corresponding to the fantasy and when that happens the consequences for the marriage can be very severe. If you both really think you are ready to see your SO being pleasured by a 3rd person without any problem of jealousy the first thing you need to do is to establish very clear boundaries that will get you a comfortable feeling of how far you guys can get. Make sure that you always choose for the more stringent boundaries from the two of you to be always in safe side! If you go for it, I hope you will enjoy it and it will spice up your marriage! 1
CarrieT Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 I have posted on often on when I tried it and how it failed... One post here. In short - I don't recommend it...
Author funwife2share Posted May 27, 2013 Author Posted May 27, 2013 Thank you for your feedback. I know it sounds like fun to us, but, myself I like to test the depth of the water before jumping in with both feet. I appreciate this....
TheGuard13 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Educate yourselves about this stuff. Don't just read message board posts...read books on this stuff. Understand the risks, but also understand that there are plenty of healthy, mature people who have sexual relationships outside their own and still lead healthy, happy lives without jealousy or breakdowns in their own relationship. I have a book called The Threesome Handbook which, simply written though it is, opened my eyes to the actual issues/solutions regarding threesomes.
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