Scarlett_girl Posted October 2, 2004 Posted October 2, 2004 I have a HUGE problem. I have a bf of almost 2 years and i care about him but i met this other guy at school, who is about 15 years older than me and i am insanely attracted to him. i can't help but think of him constantly. it's nuts thing is, he flirts with me when we are together so i think he is attracted to me to..but i think he might be married..he wears a ring but never talks about a wife or kids or anything..he acts single..you know? anyways..i don't knwo what to do..i know I have a bf but i have these feelings for him that i can't ignore! oh my god..what to do!!!
bluechocolate Posted October 2, 2004 Posted October 2, 2004 The fact that he's wearing a wedding ring would strongly indicate that he's married. He's 15 years older than you, married & he's flirting with you - therefore I would say he's a creep. Is he a part of the faculty or something? If so, he's even a bigger creep to be hitting on students. If you want to stay with your boyfriend discourage him from flirting with you & don't hang around with him. If you HAVE to be around this guy then ask him about his wife, let him know you're happily involved with someone else & convince yourself that this man is a creep. If you don't care whether he's married or not then dump your boyfriend and go for it.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted October 2, 2004 Author Posted October 2, 2004 I don't know what to do..that's why i'm here!!!
gd1039 Posted October 3, 2004 Posted October 3, 2004 I'll tell you what to do. Don't screw things up with your current BF. You have been with some guy for 2 years, and as far as we know (since you didn't say otherwise) everything is going good. Then you meet some guy who you barely know, but you are infatuated with him and consider leaving your bf for him. Sounds like a bad idea to me. I don't think enough people understand that a relationship (long term) is a lot different than when you first start dating someone. When you first start dating someone it is fun and exciting blah blah blah. Then things change after you have been together for a while. Sure, its still fun, but its not the same fun it used to be. It is a different kind of fun that you can only have once you have been with someone for a long time. Now, having said that, I understand why you have fun talking to this new guy, but date him long enough and it change. Then you will meet someother guy that makes you feel like he used to and so on and so forth. Save yourself the trouble.
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