actuallysi Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 (edited) I am in such a rut with my ex boyfriend. We dated for over a year and he ended it in January. But, we agreed to be friends. He was so harsh and I found out a few days after the break up he was talking to other girls behind my back. He apologized of course. I accepted it, because well, I love him. Then back in March he told me he wanted nothing to do with me, of course I was devastated, but I just let it be. But then a few weeks after that, he would start these dumb little fights with me for no reason. We eventually became friends again. Then in April he told me he was still sexually attracted to me. Of course I felt the same way, so we agreed to be friends with benefits. We met up once but that's it. After that one time, he didn't talk to me for a week. Then the following weekend some stuff went down, and we started talking again. He has talked to me every day since then. Then the other day he told me that I was his best friend, that he cares about me, and he loves me, all as a friend though. I have been friend zoned by my ex. But we are still both sexually attracted to each other. Then a few days ago we got in a huge fight, and I told him I hated him, and he apologized and said he didn't want to fight anymore. I was so aggravated because he always said all these mean things to me that broke my heart, and the one time I actually say how I feel, he got upset. Then I texted him before I went to bed and told him to read over them messages he sent me and realize how much he broke my heart- again. The next morning I wake up to a text from him apologizing. I mean, we're fine now and all, but he is just so confusing! A friend of mine messaged him and told him that he should be here for me (I'm having some problems right now, and I just need a friend) and then he texted me and said that he would be at my house on Monday. Tomorrow is Monday and I have no idea what's going to happen! I don't know what to do! I just want to win him back. I feel as if we are halfway there- but I need to get out of the friend zone first! What should I do come tomorrow? Someone help, please! Edited May 26, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
apple OR orange Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 (edited) quick note here to all those "nice guys" who can never get women, see what happened above.... " he would start these dumb little fights with me for no reason" and then "so we agreed to be friends with benefits", so again, never treat women nice, will never get your sex (second time i spotted this in under 24 hours, keeping track for those nay sayers who said i'm wrong)... back to the point in question... Yes you are friendzoned, you said it yourself, "friends with sex", you are FRIEND, you are friendzoned, you did it yourself... Personally dont speak to him again, am i over simplifying this? no cant be.... Edited May 26, 2013 by apple OR orange 1
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