Maleficent Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 This. Oh, so much this. That said, I avoid women who try to get a "committed relationship" before sex like the plague, unless they're willing to let me date around while we're getting to know each other. It's too much "control" of what should be a natural process for my taste. Hmmm. See if I liked a man who would be all 'ok we can wait for sex but I get to date other people' this would be a major red flag. However, I don't expect to be in a committed relationship to have sex so I guess I said this for now reason at all...
TheGuard13 Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 Right, but it varies from person to person. Sex is really important to me. I'm not going to abstain from sex but still get attached to someone while simultaneously limiting my options if they have some sort of hangup over sexual interaction.
Dragonfruit Posted May 29, 2013 Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) Just to point out, some of the posts here referring to women as "slutty" for being in touch with their own sexuality and satisfying it, while giving the men they have sex with a free pass? Um, no. That is an immature, misogynistic way of thinking and likely contributes to this whole problem. Adults of both sexes are free to do what they choose as long as they are not deceiving someone else. Edited May 30, 2013 by Dragonfruit
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