Recently had a fun first date (she's newly single)

[Treasa]

Absolutely. It's definitely time for some whining out of you. Ideally where you blame the unfair world and in second place, all men. OK?

 

 

I'll try to channel my old self.

[Mme. Chaucer]

I am so glad that my daughter looks like the better-looking members of my husband's family.

 

In that group shot, she looks JUST like your husband, down to the expression on both of their faces!

 

Is she really smiling sweetly in her sleep in that one picture?

 

OK. Sorry for the threadjack. Back to the topic: Should SD kiss, or not kiss? Does it matter how he's feeling in the moment, or should he just go for it no matter what?

[Treasa]

In that group shot, she looks JUST like your husband, down to the expression on both of their faces!

 

Is she really smiling sweetly in her sleep in that one picture?

 

OK. Sorry for the threadjack. Back to the topic: Should SD kiss, or not kiss? Does it matter how he's feeling in the moment, or should he just go for it no matter what?

 

I'm going to derail it a bit more. DoT has beautiful eyes and eyebrows, hair, and beautiful lips. She better not call herself unattractive again.

[Xinreeki]

Yea. I guess that's life, huh?

 

OK. I'll try and STFU and be happy with being unattractive.

 

Anyway, I don't want to derail my buddy's thread any longer. Good luck SD!

 

Yes, I copied and pasted the following from another thread. Hope no one is too upset about that.

 

But I think its relevant here.. due to the appearance of the text in bold above.

 

So this goes out to ALL the guys who want to give up, who think they're unattractive and who are turning to bitterness (aka The Dark Side) -

 

 

 

You're attractive. You're handsome. You're awesome. You're amazing. You're incredible. You're adorable. You're fantastic. You're gorgeous. You're dazzling. You're spectacular. You're brilliant. You're charming. You're sensational. You're lush. You're sexy. You're dashing. You're desirable. You're fetching. You're alluring. You're wonderful. You're excellent. You're magnificent.

 

At the end of the day it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you!! All that REALLY matters is what YOU think of you!

 

And you need to love yourself before others can love you.

 

If you truly love yourself for who you are, and don't care what others say, then you can develop confidence that will make you feel happier in yourself, AND as a side effect make you more attractive to others too!

 

If you have confidence in yourself, then you won't feel the need to question anyone / everyone who says nice things about you like I just did. Because if you can't accept compliments from anyone and always right it off as "pitty" or "a wind up" or "teasing", then you'll never be able to accept it when a girl really IS attracted to you.

 

Also one of the biggest turn offs to most girls / women is bitterness. But the good news is that you can work to change your mindset!

 

I've struggled with depression and anxiety for many years now, and in time I've worked on shifting to more positive ways of thinking. Now if your depression is really bad (as mine was) you may need help to feel better. I've tried various anti-depressants and the medication I'm on now has helped me a lot I think

 

True I still have bad moments and episodes from time to time, but I'm not giving up and neither should you!!

 

Don't let bitterness and depression defeat you!!

 

Never give up!! Never surrender!!

 

Bitterness leads to the dark side!! Don't let it tempt you in!!

 

[William]

Since it appears the thread has wandered off, I'll invite the thread starter to alert on this post once an update or further comment on the topic is desired. Thanks.