FlockaFlex Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Long story short, I was at rock bottom, had a lot of things going on in my life, felt like everything made a turn for the worse. She left me after 11 months together and 3 days later she was in a new guys bed and now they are dating and she has him as her profile pic. She couldn't be there for me while I was literally throwing up from all the stress and **** I was going through crying myself to sleep every night. Instead she was ****ing her new guy and she couldn't even tell me the truth when I asked for it so I could move on. She replaced me in 3 ****ing days!!! Everyday the anger and hate for her inside me grows. I hate her ****ing guts. At this point I don't think I'd care if I ever talk to her or see her again. Has anybody gone through this with all the hate and anger? I'm thinking about sending her a last text telling her I ****ing hate her. Does all this anger and hate eventually go away? It has motivated me in ways but I hope it doesn't eventually control me...
carteblanche Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Considering the circumstances, I think the anger is pretty natural. Hell, it's been 6 months after I got dumped and quickly replaced, and not a day goes by where I don't feel some degree of resentment. But the key is not to let the hatred consume you. Instead, channel it into productive measures. For a lot of people (myself included), that means hitting the gym. However, I think the ultimate goal is to either forgive or become indifferent towards what happened. Time should dull the sting of what happened. Long story short, I was at rock bottom, had a lot of things going on in my life, felt like everything made a turn for the worse. She left me after 11 months together and 3 days later she was in a new guys bed and now they are dating and she has him as her profile pic. She couldn't be there for me while I was literally throwing up from all the stress and **** I was going through crying myself to sleep every night. Instead she was ****ing her new guy and she couldn't even tell me the truth when I asked for it so I could move on. She replaced me in 3 ****ing days!!! Everyday the anger and hate for her inside me grows. I hate her ****ing guts. At this point I don't think I'd care if I ever talk to her or see her again. Has anybody gone through this with all the hate and anger? I'm thinking about sending her a last text telling her I ****ing hate her. Does all this anger and hate eventually go away? It has motivated me in ways but I hope it doesn't eventually control me...
cherie88 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 Yes its normal , these emotions are completely normal and do not feel guilty about them. Your story sounds eeringly similar to mines. My boyfriend for almost a year lied to me cheated on me and then dumped me for my friend. I didnt think I was going to get through it. Especially when he put the blame on me I pictured myself smashing the window, bleaching his clothes , cussing him out along with my "friend"..basically giving her a piece of my mind Wanna know the honest truth? The best reaction is NO reaction If you contact your ex , you might not get what you want to hear and that will crush you..you can't take the risk. Do whats good for you, something that will keep your mind off. I mean theres a whole bunch of fresh mistakes you can make out there. but in the long run you need to focus on yourself. Im not perfect, I have made some mistakes.
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