Johndoe123 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 So a new neighbor moved in downstairs from me. Didn't really talk to her aside from the hello when leaving the apartment. One evening I had a couple drinks in me and she knocked on my door. It was obvious she had a couple to drink as well. After flirting we ended up having sex. Next day we agreed to keep things casual but after 7 months of staying the night together 4-5 nights a week things were anything but casual. She is a recent college grad and i made some calls and got her a great job in her field. Always happy to help and introduce her to other professionals in her field. That's what couples do. They help. Last week we were in bed and she got a text message about 2:30 in the morning from a guy. I don't read her text messages but in the preview message I saw my name. She was asleep so I read it. It was her ex boyfriend and they had been talking about me. He asked if she was still sleeping with me. She replied yes but only because I have a lot of connections and I help her out. I was crushed and naturally ended things. She went on and on about how I'm not her boyfriend referring to our initial conversation about keeping things casual 7 months prior. I thought that was ridicules as you don't spend that much time with someone and not call it that. Anyways doesn't matter as its over. The problem is that she lives directly under me and I have a ton of anxiety about her bringing home a guy and me having to listen to them have sex. I can't sleep at night and feel like I'm losing my mind. I can't afford to move so I'm stuck. She hasn't done it yet but eventually it will happen. I'm not petty and not looking for payback so I'm not going to get her fired. I'm not even mad at her. Happy to move on but I care for her very much and our proximity makes it hard to move on. I feel used and like a fool. I have so much anxiety and having trouble with this. What do I do? Please help me with this.
crazy1234 Posted May 26, 2013 Posted May 26, 2013 i think you need to let it go,get yourself busy with so much that u only get time to do you'r work and nothing else.I go through something similar as my ex lives in my road so i saw him with the girl he left me for.So i'm guessing its even harder for you as i think you have already developed feelings for her.So try keeping yourself busy and date if there's a nice girl around the corner and is interested(its totally shudnt be a rebound).Do things in its natural course.
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